Reading comments in different communities, I noticed that users hardly leave smilies. Why is that?

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  • AFK BRB Chocolate
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    566 months ago

    Personally I feel like if I need to use one, then I’ve done a poor job of writing.

    I guess the other component is that I write a lot at work (I’m an engineering manager) and emoticons aren’t really appropriate for that kind of communication, so I’m not in the habit of using them.

    • Captain Janeway
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      366 months ago

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    • @[email protected]
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      226 months ago

      What kind of engineering manager isn’t using a dramatic shrug emoji or emoticon dozens of times every day?!

      Don’t tell me your team has their shit together.

      • AFK BRB Chocolate
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        106 months ago

        I prefer to walk to their desks and make the expressions and gestures in person.

    • @shartedchocolate
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      126 months ago

      😂 what!? I’ve worked with 11 engineering managers and they’ve all used emojis. You’re either not in software or you work for a bank/insurance.

      • AFK BRB Chocolate
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        86 months ago

        Not sure what to tell you, I’m the senior manager for software engineering in a company that makes rocket engines, solid rocket motors, and space electrical power systems. I’ve been working there for 38 years and emojis are pretty rare.

          • AFK BRB Chocolate
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            36 months ago

            Huh interesting. Are you comfortable saying more? The company I work for did the EPS for the ISS, we did the MMRTGs for the Mars rovers, and some others. We’re not at the same place, are we?

        • @shartedchocolate
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          36 months ago

          Exactly, not in software as in, not working for a software company.

          • AFK BRB Chocolate
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            46 months ago

            I did start by saying I was an engineering manager, so I thought that part was a given

            • @shartedchocolate
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              16 months ago

              Sorry! I’ve only heard that title used in the context of software engineering gigs.

              • AFK BRB Chocolate
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                26 months ago

                Hmmm, maybe we have a semantic issue. That’s literally my title: Senior Manager, Software Engineering. But it’s a heavily engineering company, not a heavily software company.

          • AFK BRB Chocolate
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            6 months ago

            Emoticons started getting popular in the 90s, so I’m in the age group where that was happening. You’ll see other people in this thread saying they felt like it was a boomer thing. I don’t think my age is the reason.