• RiverGhost
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    251 year ago

    Same. My partner and I are engaged but there’s never going to be a diamond in the picture. If they had found the diamond ritual important, we wouldn’t be too compatible.

    I also cannot deal with rings in general due to sensory issues.

    We do want to find some kind of wearable, interesting symbol though.

    • @AquaTofana
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      61 year ago

      Ooohhh have you about buying a band and wearing it on a chain around your neck instead? I know people who work with machinery do that to avoid their rings getting caught on the equipment.

      I’ve always thought it was kind of sweet because now your ring hangs close to your heart everyday!

    • @Suck_on_my_Presence
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      61 year ago

      I know it’s not the best recommendation, but my partner and I have matching tattoos on our ring fingers. It’s a symbol for something we both really really love and it’s delicate and sensible enough that no one looks twice. Even if we split, it’s not their name or anything and it’s still something that means a lot to me on its own and is vague enough to be something I’ll still enjoy