• Seven
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    1911 months ago

    A friend of a friend once talked me into going to a munch, where some scenes were going to be done. I’m interested in seeing new things and try to be open to having my horizons broadened, so I figured why not?

    I have to say, not only did I find it intensely boring, it was also about as much of a turn-off as I can imagine any in-person experience being.

    • @cactusupyourbutt
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      2211 months ago

      usually a munch is for discussions and not for scenes. often in public bars and such too

      • deweydecibel
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        11 months ago

        Yeah, munch is basically kink recess. It’s a get together for the community that is almost explicitly non-sexual, just because it’s good and useful to have some time set aside for that.

        Now, to be completely honest, I’ve never seen the appeal. I’m not in the scene to talk about the scene. But I appreciate the benefits of them for people that want that social aspect.

        • @cactusupyourbutt
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          411 months ago

          same, Im not really that interested in that kind of munching

      • Seven
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        211 months ago

        I’m aware of that now, but at the time didn’t know anything about it … it was being done in a community space where there was a bar and plenty of space for activities.

    • @yokonzo
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      1211 months ago

      Yeah, I can’t imagine doing a munch where there’s scenes involved, that just seems weird, but the ones I’ve been to just serve as like lunch with some like minded people who just happen to be talking about cock and ball torture in an iHop

      • Seven
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        211 months ago

        Yeah, that was just what the organisers called it I guess.