I’m letting people who hurt me in the past live rent free in my mind.

One episode involves a former landlord that tried to run me over in an intersection with no traffic cameras.

Another one involves a manager that fired me for informing that one of his favorites yelled during night shift and ignored alarms to talk. He fired me the next day, used the exit interview to tell me everything I didn’t do right (but kept quiet about his favorites, even though I did the job like them), still had the utmost confidence on his favorites, accused me of being lazy and instead of simply firing me and keeping neutral he chose to take it personal, proceeded to try to scare me insinuating I wouldn’t work for his system again, when that failed, tried to humiliate me and then fired me. This was in an non union hospital.

When I think about it I get angry. Id like not to be so thin skinned, but here I am.

  • @LemmyKnowsBest
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    1 year ago

    yoga

    distance running

    weightlifting

    skydiving

    stuff like that. I kid you not, it will make all the bullshit everyone has ever done to you, melt away because you are better and awesomer than any of their bullshit.

    And you can also file legal proceedings against them to sue their asses for destroying your life.

      • @RBWells
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        01 year ago

        Physical effort does calm the mind. Even if you don’t like it, we are animals and made to move around, walk, run some, stretch to reach things, climb, dance. There isn’t really a substitute for that.