This dude is extremely persistent about having irrelevant things his way, and when he doesn’t get it, he acts as if it were a personal attack. Do you guys have any argument or method to deal with this kind of people?

I used to say “whatever” and let him have things his way, but as I got more experienced I started to listen more to his arguments and basically respond “this makes no sense” (not with those exact words, of course).

  • @modeler
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    145 months ago

    This is common enough to have a name in several industries. In SW Dev it’s called ‘bikeshedding’. If you have a name for it, it’s easier to call out to your seniors and peers - and you should call this out and help the meeting move on to more useful matters.

    I’d suggest informally discussing this with people around you - enough people that you (or someone else) can safely say “let’s not get trapped in bikeshedding” in the meeting and getting immediate agreement.