• @GlitterInfection
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    84 months ago

    Liars say they’re sorry way more than people who tell the truth, I’ve found.

    • @HerrBeter
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      64 months ago

      I think that’s a symtom of abuse, or indicator. Don’t quote me on this

        • @HerrBeter
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          64 months ago

          Abuse also creates people who at the core lack a sense of self, so trying to fit into groups can be difficult and makes them prone to do things wrong. (my head just went into a translation error dead zone)

          It’s crazy how big of an impact a non-abusive upbringing can have. I’ve personally struggled with cognitive dissonance from my own, took me a low 15 years to accept it

          • @GlitterInfection
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            44 months ago

            Yeah. I had a physically and mentally abusive father as well, but he wasn’t much of a liar in this case. I’m 40, been on my own since 17, and still need regular therapy for all of it. So I empathize.