I always thought of it like this: if a workplace makes you feel devalued or is toxic (gaslighting and ranting about you behind your back), you quietly find new pastures.

Now, however, I think this is the wrong approach: why do I have to accept they bully me? I should defend myself. And doesn’t the manager have to make sure a workplace ain’t toxic? Instead of quietly looking for a new job next time this happens, wouldn’t it be better to confront, document and escalate instead of letting it go? even if HR only exists to protect the company and not me.

If HR and manager do nothing to address the problem, wouldn’t it be a better strategy to start working the least possible and let the company fire me, while looking for another job?

  • 𝕱𝖎𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
    8•10 months ago

    In the states, you’d probably be let go for something like this. At will employment means you can be let go for any or no reason, it’s total BS. Google just recently waited until a group of union members were in front of city council to fire them.