Why do people around me tend to increase their responsibility load (i.e. have children, become a manager, do charity, etc.) while I (30M) try to avoid it as much as I can?

@[email protected] · edit-2 9 months ago

Why do people around me tend to increase their responsibility load (i.e. have children, become a manager, do charity, etc.) while I (30M) try to avoid it as much as I can?

@[email protected] · 9 months ago

Parenting is usually an accident or a pressure trap from family/society/religion. Also a tad of biological drive overriding sense.

That is a very soured view imo.

@fishpen0 · 9 months ago

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Annoyed_🦀 · 9 months ago

without talking about financial pressures

So you just wanna nitpick the answer without considering some people want kids without societal pressure but can’t because of financial pressure.

Ok.

@[email protected] · 9 months ago

People are more comfortable having condom conversations now. I don’t think it’s the biggest reason, but it does make a difference

@fishpen0 · 9 months ago

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@[email protected] · 9 months ago

I don’t consider that an accident, lol. A condom breaking or not functioning normally is an accident. Not using one because you don’t want to discuss it is a choice.

Uranium3006 · 9 months ago

pretty much. capitalism is incompatible with human biology and the continued existence of the human race, and I didn’t even mention the environment yet