• @BleatingZombie
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    7 months ago

    I understand what you’re saying, but I don’t see how anything I’ve said would come across as an attack. Also, I hope it’s clear that I used the word “genre” because it’s in the community name

    I’m truly sorry for anyone’s feelings I’ve hurt. I just don’t know how somebody who’s ignorant and wants to be more educated (like myself) could have avoided that

    Also, I’ve never once referred to trans people as anything other than “people” or “folks”. I don’t like how it seems you’re implying that I don’t respect trans people because I read the community name verbatim (in English)

    Edit: I think your last statement was a typo and you mean this community doesn’t accept intolerance, but it doesn’t seem like you’re willing to tolerate people who are new and trying to learn

    Feel free to look through my comment history. You’ll probably see some weird stuff, but you’ll also see that I am extremely respectful when posting in trans communities

    • TGhost [She/Her]OP
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      17 months ago

      I understand what you’re saying, but I don’t see how anything I’ve said would come across as an attack. Also, I hope it’s clear that I used the word “genre” because it’s in the community name

      Genre in french, doesnt have the same meaning that in english, false friend totally.
      In english if you say transgender people, its totally different than “The genre trans”.

      I’m truly sorry for anyone’s feelings I’ve hurt. I just don’t know how somebody who’s ignorant and wants to be more educated (like myself) could have avoided that

      Well its a french community, but this case of behavings its totally include in the rules. Translate them with deepl like ;)

      Pour cela, si vous etes curieux, et que vous decouvrez le sujet, ce site vous est fortement conseillé avant toute intervention ici.
      Its well explained but the ressource is in french.

      Edit: I think your last statement was a typo and you mean this community doesn’t accept intolerance, but it doesn’t seem like you’re willing to tolerate people who are new and trying to learn

      Priority here is for trans folks, not for cis.
      You have enough ressource to make your culture after all,

      But if you ask we can give,
      But if you feel attacked because what i say to you, maybe its not the best /c for you here, effectively.

      I tolerate people, but they have to tolerate that the words are important and the meaning behind too.

      • @BleatingZombie
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        17 months ago

        but they have to tolerate that the words are important and the meaning behind too.

        I was never intolerant of these things either. I (ignorantly) used words that are now clear to me are seen as intolerant

        I understand this community doesn’t want me, but please stop implying I’m something that I’m not

        • TGhost [She/Her]OP
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          17 months ago

          I was never intolerant of these things either. I (ignorantly) used words that are now clear to me are seen as intolerant.

          I dont take you account personnaly. I explain in generality and why.

          I understand this community doesn’t want me, but please stop implying I’m something that I’m not.

          As you don’t want others disform your words. Same for me ;-).
          I’m not saying that.

          You got the main point. Words are important. And that’s what I care.

          If you understand the difference and why between “the genre trans is” and “trans people/folks etc are…”, that’s what I care about.

          I understand u didn’t come here to bullying.
          You were ignorant as you said of this PoV. I’ve gave it to you. And end for me. There is no issue for real.