• @[email protected]
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    236 months ago

    Wait… is my ADHD why I’m not interested in anal and dont understand why guys want to put their dick in the poophole? (Am straight cis man btw)

    • Lux
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      226 months ago

      No, that’s just sexual preference

    • Semivir [he/him, she/her]
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      206 months ago

      Yeah, you aren’t obligated to like anal. And there are several reasons for (not) wanting to do it.

      You’re not even required by international sexual law to be even remotely interested in sticking your dick in anything. You do you, but be safe when you do!

      But just for context, for most people who engage in anal (both giving and receiving end), the feeling of taboo is part of the fun.

      • @[email protected]
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        166 months ago

        I never thought of it as taboo? Its like the third most vanilla sex thing after vaginal and oral (which i also dont understand. There is a designated hole for the penis, and it doesnt even have teeth!)

        • Semivir [he/him, she/her]
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          76 months ago

          When I say taboo, I mean in the naughty sense. As in it feels kinky because you don’t understand why it turns you on, and you know it shouldn’t, but it does anyway.

          But hey, it’s not for everyone, and that’s okay.

          • Miss Brainfarts
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            86 months ago

            It shouldn’t turn me on? Then why is my fun button only directly accessible through the back door?

            • Semivir [he/him, she/her]
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              66 months ago

              Yeah that’s a good point. That’s what I would call intelligent design. Take that, creationists!

              The “shouldn’t” aspect is more directly applicable to different kinds of kinks or fetishes. Anyone who has experienced what the… uh [checks notes]… “fun button” has to offer will probably tell you that the whole situation is not a coincidence.

              Or so I’ve heard… (they’ll buy that, right?)

          • @[email protected]
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            96 months ago

            Oh don’t worry im a freak in other ways ;)

            But also most parties I attend this topic is not broached.

            But also yes. In most parties I am that meme of the guy standing in the corner.