I love all the ritualized behaviour, secret meanings and unexpected taboos - standing up when someone of higher status stands, elaborate rules for serving and eating, tapping the table to thank the server, never refuse a toast from a superior, stuff like that.
Whether it’s about meals or anything else, I’d love to hear about any uncommon politeness standard or similar social behaviour that goes on in your location, culture or restaurant!
In a busy restaurant in the New York City area, it is considered rude to waste people’s time in not knowing what to order. If you don’t have your order or questions ready about the order when it is your turn, you’re going to piss everyone else off.
How it should be.