There’s pain and then there’s uncomfortable pain. I might sound a bit insane but there’s legitimately a difference. Impact play hurts more than getting fucked with a giant dildo without enough lube, but is genuinely more comfortable and I’d take it any day.
Water is not a good lubricant. Most showerheads and baths are designed to sooth 1 person at a time. 1 person will be miserable at any given time.
Always gotta get those double shower head things
water & soap is an even worse lubricant. Even people into pain will advise against it (in accordance with the safe sane and consensual rule)
There’s pain and then there’s uncomfortable pain. I might sound a bit insane but there’s legitimately a difference. Impact play hurts more than getting fucked with a giant dildo without enough lube, but is genuinely more comfortable and I’d take it any day.