This is the thing… ob1 should not have even trained him in the first place you’re right Qui-Gon Jinn wanted to train him and qui-gonjin died Obi-Wan Kenobi wasn’t even a Jedi and he just took it upon himself to be this guy’s trainer… now if you’re going to do that, he was like in his late 20s early 30s and Anakin was a kid so that should not have been a brother figure relationship in the first place if anything it should have been a teacher student thing and teacher students don’t run around the Galaxy together like Brothers doing adventures together it’s ridiculous… he needed a father figure and he needed to stay on his planet and work on cars not be thrust into some kind of role that he didn’t even want to be in in the first place and that hurt him more than helped him… Obi-Wan let him join him on missions he wasn’t supposed to go on, he was allowed to wander the temple, he was allowed to sleep in obies bedroom, he hid his internal issues so he wouldn’t disappoint obi-wan, that is not what a student Master Jedi thing should be all about… he really abused his relationship with Anakin.

And we all know that abused people abuse people. It’s Obi Wan’s fault for not just walking away and leaving Anakin to be a space mechanic.