• Eevoltic [she/her]
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    681 year ago

    There’s also the wretched feeling when you witness something unjust (for me anyways)

    • DrCatface
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      251 year ago

      oh is this why i nearly murdered that guy for dropping his cigarette butts down the drain

    • @shneancy
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      201 year ago

      haha that is the main reason why I’m choosing to live in ignorance about what’s happening in the news, I can’t handle so much of it. It makes my blood boil. The important things get to me through memes anyway

  • @crypticthree
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    671 year ago

    You forgot “all consuming dread”

    • @[email protected]
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      241 year ago

      Wednesday forever and this whole grocery store hated me kind of covers that, but yeah, dread is especially apparent with phone calls and late afternoon appointments.

  • 🐑🇸 🇭 🇪 🇪 🇵 🇱 🇪🐑
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    Tbh the anger spiral helped me cut out toxic people from my life and made me less codependent on awful social groups.

    I feel genuinely much better after completely cutting off an entire community of people

    • @[email protected]
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      161 year ago

      I’m currently the one being cut off from someone and I feel like shit… I double-booked a thing and now they think I suck and am not reliable. And it’s probably true. I’m so bad at dates and remembering to write things down, but I want to change. This is probably the push I need to remember forever now, but don’t want to lose my friend group over it. Fuck, I hate myself so much.

      Oh hey, that whole type of rant is on the list,too lol.

      • experbia
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        141 year ago

        Hey man,

        you’re probably fine. I don’t know the details, but humans are fallible. you’re only human. friends should know this, they’re only human too. I doubt these friends have all been perfect all the time, and I doubt they’ll do everything perfect from here on out.

        If it caused a problem, tell them the truth. you double booked. you had to pick one over the other. you feel bad you flaked. you don’t intend to make it a habit.

        if it cost people something, consider making it up somehow. but I would propose that unless it’s cost them real bad, good friends ought to accept the apology without expecting the compensation. they’ll mess up someday too, and it’s better for everyone to be kind.

        don’t hate yourself. it does no good for anyone. counterproductive and undeserved. develop a system to help you. you can’t always change your nature, but you can build around it.

          • @[email protected]
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            31 year ago

            I know it’s hard to get in the habit, but take out your phone when making any plans or appointments, get the calendar app out and add it as it happens. Don’t wait even 1 minute. Feel free to tell the person you’re adding it to the calendar as you do it if you feel like you’re being rude. I set reminder notifications for all appointments based on how much notice I would need if I completely forgot about it.

            • Steal Wool
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              11 year ago

              Yeah I’ve been doing this ever since I got a smart phone

      • @stoly
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        Remember that emotional dysregulation is a very common thing among the general population and many cannot separate that they are frustrated with a situation and being frustrated with you. You don’t really want to be around people capable of such heavy levels of judgement or an unwillingness to be charitable in their interpretations of others.

    • @stoly
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      21 year ago

      Yeah pretty much I spent years being traumatized by idiots before I realized that most people are stupid and not worth your time. Once I understood that, life became so much better. I am now of the opinion that few people are worth the drama they bring to your lives, and your real goal is to find those few who are worth it.

  • @OwlYaYeet
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    161 year ago

    What’s the anger spiral and the last one?

  • @tamal3
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    91 year ago

    Tell me about “Wednesday forever,” please?

    • @[email protected]
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      191 year ago

      My guess is its the exhaustion of having survived the start of the week combined with the dread of having to survive that long again

    • R0cket_M00se
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      81 year ago

      In my mind it’s just the slow realization that you’ll have to repeat the same cycle forever.

    • @stoly
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      71 year ago

      The cycle never ends. There’s never a downtime, just more “do-do-do”. The moment you finish something, it’s already time to start it again.

  • Trafficone
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    31 year ago

    Am I misreading this, or is there something about lust that’s specifically ADHD?

    • PorkRoll
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      161 year ago

      If I remember correctly, hypersexuality is often a symptom of ADHD because the sweet release of dopamine that comes with sex and sex related activities often helps ease the other symptoms of ADHD.

      • d-RLY?
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        51 year ago

        That makes at least a portion of my youth make more sense all of a sudden. It also doesn’t help that at least stimulants-based treatment adds its own bump.

        • @[email protected]
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          stalking someone’s posts seems more like harassment than anything else. try blocking

          do you even know who you’re replying to? I have zero interest in whatever petty bullshit yall bringing from another community. I just thought they needed a reminder to log off once in a while, if this is how you’re spending your time. same to you, Mixter Step-In

    • @MetaCubed
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      71 year ago

      Do you have any evidence for this claim?

      • StametsOP
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        Literally no.

        That user is otherwise known as DroneRights. You can check modlogs and see that they’ve had accounts on every major instance and every account has been banned for transphobia, general bigotry, slander, and copious amounts of lying. They particularly hate me because I am both a popular poster as well as someone who specifically called out their shit and got them banned from Startrek.website. They openly admit that they have narcissistic personality disorder and are using that to both abuse other people as well as shield themselves from abuse. They are literally incapable of coping with the fact that someone has pointed out that they are a trash person and has made it their sole mission to try and slander me at every possible case.

        I banned them from 3 communities earlier today for making these exact same claims about me and providing zero evidence but these comments still exist elsewhere.

        Honestly I just keep forgetting they exist. I think they’re drastically overselling how important they think they are. Only reason I’m even aware of their existence is because they just keep copy/pasting the same argument over and over again. Literally not creative enough to come up with anything new.

          • StametsOP
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            You are a known alt account of DroneRights.

              • @[email protected]
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                81 year ago

                It’s not nice to insult someone’s language skills, they could well be learning, and it makes some people very self conscious.

              • StametsOP
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                81 year ago

                Your IP was matched to DroneRights when you were banned from another instance.

                You are a known alt account of DroneRights.

                • Leela [it/its]
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                  -111 year ago

                  How was it even matched to DroneRights? Can you show me the proof it was? Could you please give everyone the damning piece of evidence that proves once and for all that I am an alt account of DroneRights. If my IP was matched to DR’s IP, then I need to see this. I am genuinely stupefied by this. Like, genuinely give me a link to the modlogs or send a screenshot, any sort of proof. I did not know my IP was matched to theirs. I know my IP should be Romanian because that’s where I am from, and indicating Bucharest because we are using a private relay on our iPhone (the iCloud+ thing).

        • “Narcissist” is not a slur. Additionally, he’s calling you out for your bad behaviour and online harassment, not “because you have NPD”.

          If you have a mental disorder that prevents you from behaving nicely online, it may be wiser not to comment. Because people won’t see your NPD as an excuse, but as a justification showing that you do demonstrate bad behaviour and therefore are prone to breaking the (social) rules. Ergo justifying the ban.

        • @MetaCubed
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          201 year ago

          “Narcissist is a slur!” -cried the Narcissist

          I’ve done the digging I need to to confirm to my satisfaction that you’ve at least 3 alts, all of which defend you, use it/its pronouns, and all of which claim to be the originating victim.

          Stop lying, log off

          • StametsOP
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            111 year ago

            Wish I could say I hated them or even pitied them but frankly I don’t even think about them at all. The fact that they think about me non-stop is pretty gratifying though I guess.

          • Leela [it/its]
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            -91 year ago

            That’s your only proof? My guy. Did you just learn yesterday that more than a single person uses it/its pronouns? Damn.