• @TORFdot0
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    1710 months ago

    Redditors of Reddit, sex, am I right?

    Believe it or not, despite all the furry porn in the all feed. Lemmy isn’t horny enough for posts like this OP

    • Damaskox
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      110 months ago

      I dunno, I see lots of replies here? Being it horny-driven or not.

    • soli
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      410 months ago

      Yeah, got talked into it by an ex. Wasn’t even really about the awkwardness a lot of people talk about.

      For me, it was initially hot but I ended up with a deep, hollow feeling. You have the same lack of intimacy with the third that makes one night stands unfulfilling, combined with this sort of violation of the intimacy you had with your partner. I actually felt a bit sick afterwards.

      If it’s your thing have at it, there are plenty of different relationship styles and kinks that’d make it much more appealing, but personally I would never consider it again.

    • I think it needs practice. Live, your first time 1-on-1 probably was a little awkward and not as good as after you had some experience, threesomes probably get better with experience.

      I’ve only had one, and it wasn’t that great, but looking back I can see how see how awkward we all were. If we’d done it a few more times, or if one of us had been able to guide activities better, I’m pretty sure it would have been more fun for everyone.

  • Carighan Maconar
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    10 months ago

    Definitely a woman, seeing as both my current FwB and me are mostly into women. 😅 (That’d be FFM, for clarification)

    • PonyOfWar
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      010 months ago

      Clarifying a cryptic abbreviation with another cryptic abbreviation doesn’t really help matters I’m afraid.

      • @[email protected]
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        2010 months ago

        FwB is a friend with benefits, usually of a sexual nature, and FFM means either Frankfurt am Main or a threesome with two female and one male participant.

  • ArumiOrnaught
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    110 months ago

    4some is better, you can go for longer because brakes are possible.

    Also never have a 3some with straight people. They have expectations that will never hold up to reality.