• @anyhow2503
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    801 month ago

    Having really dry skin does not help with grip.

    • @[email protected]
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      51 month ago

      Less slip with dry skin though. Put moisturizer on and try to open a tight jar and you’ll need to squeeze harder to prevent your hand from slipping

      • @cybersandwich
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        221 month ago

        Wait, so is this tweet about someone putting moisturizer on right before they try to open a jar? Because that’s just silly.

        Otherwise, it shouldn’t be a big difference. If anything it might help with grip vs super dry hands.

      • @NightAuthor
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        11 month ago

        There’s definitely a sweet spot for moisture, the skin is most grippy when well hydrated. But when you have a fresh application of lotion it’s acting more as a lubricant between your hand and the lid.

        I think you could compare your skin to cloth, dry it’ll skid across the floor easily, wet it and it’ll cling to the floor and move no further than precisely as far as you push it.

  • NielsBohron
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    I read somewhere that for some reason grip strength is one of the only muscle groups where the Bell curves of male strength vs. female strength has essentially zero overlap. It was something like “the weakest 2% of men have stronger grip strength than 98% of women,” or maybe even more extreme. IDK, I can’t remember the source and I can’t be bothered to look for it on a Saturday morning, but I thought I’d throw it out there anyway. ¯\_ (ツ)_/¯

    • THCDenton
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      241 month ago

      I hand my rock climber sister in law jars to open all the time lol

    • @Shou
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      131 month ago

      Well crap. Now I want to train my grip strength.

    • no banana OP
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      91 month ago

      I looked it up. It’s pretty interesting! I suggest others Google it as well.

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          I was way too lazy for that when I did it, but I can tell you that I googled “grip strength men and women” and found some interesting facts. Not exactly what the original comment said but very fascinating nonetheless.

          Edit: here’s one of the results which I cannot speak to the legitimacy of.

    • @[email protected]
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      It’s not quite that dramatic from what I can see, but I wouldn’t be surprised if studies have been done that found that distribution.

      It’s hard to account for social factors inherent in this, too. Like, how do we account for men being more encouraged to develop grip strength muscles than women? Men are much more likely, from young childhood, to be encouraged to perform many different kinds of strenuous physical activity. Women are discouraged from performing those same activities (also from childhood) and are also very heavily pressured towards eating less and being/appearing weaker.

      This social influence definitely has a real tangible impact on how people’s muscle strength develops. Due to its essentially all-encompassing nature (there’s not really any man/woman in society who is entirely free from societal pressure) it’s hard to tell to what degree this discrepancy is influenced by external factors instead of biological circumstances. That is, how can we test this accurately when half the participants have been discouraged from building muscle mass and grip strength all their lives?

      Testosterone exposure definitely has a real impact, but the idea that the weakest 2% of men have stronger grip strength than 98% of women is doubtful. A study may have been done that had those findings, but I’d question the methodology used and be interested to see what their sample size and demographic makeup were.

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        161 month ago

        The distribution is not that extreme but it’s still very skewed. This is one of the areas where the anatomy of men and women seem to really differ.

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          This still suffers from an unaddressed element of external factors. Including 60 participants who are athletes does not undo social pressures. Those athletes are still and were subject to social pressures throughout their childhood and adolescence. The same could be said for the men in the study as well. They were still disproportionately encouraged towards activities that would build grip strength.

          There are other studies showing a more moderate bell curve overlap (closer to 50% of men studied have stronger grip strength than all women studied). I’d be interested to see data aggregated from different nations comprising individuals from similar age and height ranges across different continents. Taking a bunch of people still within western society as your sample base does, well, nothing to account for the inherent influence of western society on women.

    • @SanndyTheManndy
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      81 month ago

      If women had the same grip strength as men, there’d be a lot more penile injuries in the world.

    • @Odo
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      11 month ago

      deleted by creator

    • AwkwardLookMonkeyPuppet
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      01 month ago

      It’s because we’re always grabbing things. Our own dingalings, boobies, booties. Werkin that grip.

    • @arin
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      21 month ago

      Can confirm, left hand has greater strength

    • @T156
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      191 month ago

      Instructions unclear; rolled the jar into a jarball.

    • @Emerald
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      21 month ago

      Jars are actually zips, so a simple as an unzip *.zip

    • @CommissarVulpin
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      131 month ago

      If you have oven mitts with rubber on them, those work too. Mousepads also work in a pinch (do people use mousepads anymore?)

      • no banana OP
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        161 month ago

        What’s a mouse, grampa?

          • @KaiReeve
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            61 month ago

            Quit flying that drone over my lawn.

            • no banana OP
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              51 month ago

              Quad Copter Kids ruining my lawn

        • @grue
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          It’s a thing real computers that can actually be used to create things (as opposed to tablets and phones which can only be used to consoom) still have and will always have.

          • no banana OP
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            51 month ago

            What is a “computer”? I only know my iPad and fruit ninja

        • @AnUnusualRelic
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          01 month ago

          Rubber bands are well known to the photography crowd to take filters off, but they do work to unscrew all kinds of things.

    • @arin
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      11 month ago

      Even as a guy i do that. Why work harder when grippy rubber makes it easy? I used to use rubber bands but some kids lids are too big, so dishwashing gloves are the best

      • Fushuan [he/him]
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        11 month ago

        I usually just take some cloth. If it doesn’t work, I use a knife to let some air through and that does the trick.

  • @affiliate
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    221 month ago

    i cover all my jars in lotion. keeps things challenging and it means i never forget to lotion up

  • @Gabu
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    161 month ago

    Might also have something to do with having, on average, twice the grip strength… but who knows.

  • AwkwardLookMonkeyPuppet
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    151 month ago

    I put a 1/4" layer of moisturizer on my hands before bed and then put gloves on. I can still open jars because of the testosterone.

    • no banana OP
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      151 month ago

      I put the gloves on first

    • @Sniatch
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      61 month ago

      You wear gloves when you sleep?

      • AwkwardLookMonkeyPuppet
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        41 month ago

        Yeah, when my hands are really dry during the winter. They’re just cotton gloves made specifically for use with moisturizer.

        • @[email protected]
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          31 month ago

          I could never do that. I aborre the feeling of moist skin touching cloth. Lotion on feet with socks is my nightmare.

          • AwkwardLookMonkeyPuppet
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            51 month ago

            I resorted to extreme measures when my hands were deeply cracked in a dozen places and getting blood all over my sheets.

        • @Sniatch
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          21 month ago

          Interesting. Thank you

  • Nepenthe
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    So apparently if you smack it all around the sides of the lid with a spoon or something, you can loosen the vacuum seal.

    It sounds fake but it worked the other night on a jar of salsa I was legitimately considering just breaking, and I’m still kinda mad that I never knew that til now.

    • @SkyezOpen
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      121 month ago

      Hot water on the lid expands it a bit too.

    • no banana OP
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      71 month ago

      I usually BONK the side of the lid against the table.

      • @ilikecoffee
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        71 month ago

        I just insert something long and thin (usually a knife) between the lid and the glass rim, then gently lift just until the pressure is released. Probably doesn’t cause the lid to mis-shape as much as from bashing it 😅

        • flicker
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          31 month ago

          I had to learn this trick to open those goddamned Talenti pints that are vacuum sealed for no damn reason and no, I’m not still salty about it, why do you ask?!

          • @ilikecoffee
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            41 month ago

            Guess you need a bit of Talenti to open those…

        • no banana OP
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          31 month ago

          I don’t, even though it’s a good idea, because it requires an extra tool. BONK just requires raw power!

          • @ilikecoffee
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            31 month ago

            That is also a fair point lol

        • @[email protected]
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          11 month ago

          If I lose the first round to a jar, I use a bottle opener for that. (Almost) No risk of stressing the glass.

    • @[email protected]
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      Insert the end of a cutlery knife between the rim of the glass jar and lid from below. Give it a tiny wiggle, and the jar will pop open. At least if it’s stuck because of a vacuum.

      If that didn’t work, poke a tiny hole in the lid with a sharp object to break the vacuum, but please be careful if using a kitchen knife for this! A nail or a screw is probably a safer choice.

      • Fushuan [he/him]
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        31 month ago

        You might think that the knife frees the vacuum and that that’s what opens the jar. Lies. You must inflict fear upon the jar with the knife.

  • @[email protected]
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    131 month ago

    Transgender lady here. I have experience on both sides of this.

    Testosterone does a lot of interesting things to your body, including making your skin more rough. This includes your fingertips.

    Several years after taking HRT, I had problems holding onto things. This wasn’t a matter of grip strength. My fingerprints had lost the pronounced ridging that they used to have. The result was butterfingers; losing grip on anything that wasn’t roughly textured itself. Anything smooth would just fall right out of my hands. And jar lids became suddenly difficult to open.

  • @[email protected]
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    111 month ago

    Both me (compulsively forgets to moisturize), and my wife (moisturized several times a day with hand, body, face lotions) handle most jars with ease.

    What gets both of us is little jars. Extracts, or vanilla. Especially alcohol free vanilla! It’s sticky and sticks to the threads of the lid/jar. Even with wiping it down, it’s a problem.

    My solution was to wrap the lids in 2242 Electrical tape. Which really helps with getting a grip on it.

    • @BleatingZombie
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      61 month ago

      Don’t even get me started on old honey bottles

        • @BleatingZombie
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          141 month ago

          You know what? I’m doing it!

          You’re never able to get the freaking honey to pour out correctly, so it INEVITABLY gets on and under the lid

          Fast forward 3 years to when my forgetful ass remembers I want honey. I go to the pantry and the bit that leaked out has now willed itself into concrete because I’m just standing there, red-faced, in front of my wife, watching her realize how weak of a person I truly am

      • @arin
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        31 month ago

        Hot water for honey, softens the crystalized honey in the lid.

    • @[email protected]
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      21 month ago

      Bovril lids catch me out. Especially if you spilt some over the edge last time you used it. Damn thing is practically superglued shut. Even I have to break out the marigolds for that.

      • @[email protected]
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        21 month ago

        I had to search out two separate words in your post. 🇱🇷

        (I’m not Liberian, but if I’m going to admit to the “dumb american” trope, I might as well embrace the full caricature - that U.S. citizens keep picking the Liberian flag emoji instead of their own.)

        For others: Bovril is like marmite/vegemite, except it’s based on beef. I’m assuming it’s similar to concentrated beef stock paste. Marigolds is a manufacturer of kitchen gloves.

  • @Mango
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    111 month ago

    Yes we do. Only when you’re not watching.