• @danc4498
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      37 months ago

      I’m not a fan of future me cause I know he’s gonna be a dick about it.

  • FlashMobOfOne
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    207 months ago

    It’s exactly like that.

    Which is why I generally don’t make plans until day of anymore.

  • @[email protected]
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    207 months ago

    I have to give myself a pep talk most of the time. “You know you’ll have a good time. You’ll be glad you went.”

    It’s easier now that I’m in a relationship and it’s not just me alone for most things.

  • @Jinx2756
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    167 months ago

    This is so true that it actually hurts to read.

  • @[email protected]
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    107 months ago

    I invite people over. Then the social cost of cancelling is too high and I can cope with anxiety by preparing for the party.

    • @sheogorath
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      37 months ago

      This is what I do. And I’m not an introvert. I spent too much time on people’s homes when I was a kid because I didn’t have a lot growing up. Now, since I got something I always invite people over for dinner or for some LAN party session.