I spent this last weekend partying at a cabin, then came home and immediately had to do a 5:00am video shoot for work come Monday morning, so I had no energy to put into my appearance today at all; I have been a walking husk, just carrying this fresh-outta-bed disheveled look through my day lol.

Once my shoot was over, I decided to get myself some McDonald’s breakfast and went through the drive through. I made my order in my very deep voice, and was told, “ok, that will be $7.50 at the next window, sir.” That’s what I expected, because I have quite a manly voice as default, and I am not confident enough in my voice training to use it out in public.

However, I get up to the window to pay, the lady takes one look at me, and says “Oh my goodness, I’m so sorry, ma’am! Of course, ma’am!” That had never happened to me before, where somebody heard me speak, sees me and still decides I’m a woman. Getting misgendered did not bug me at all, since it was what I expected in my unglamorous presentation today, but hearing her be so sure that “ma’am” was the right word for me even in my husk state really just made my day.

I spent the next hour just saying “Wow, holy hell. Whoa. That’s crazy,” in joyful disbelief. Early shoot be damned, today kicks ass! I just needed to tell somebody lol