• @Skullgrid
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    2 months ago

    serial weight gainer/loser here.

    Exessively true. Clothes too loose or too tight.

    I’ve been wanting to get back to my M size t shirts for years. I had a time where my XXXL s were so baggy I got them resized.

    now they’re too tight because they’re resized. My XLs and Ls are working, but the Ls are kinda tight but not too bad

    • @[email protected]
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      82 months ago

      You’re doing great. Our bodies are not a single, static size forever.
      I’m sorry you dont feel comfortable in your clothes but if it makes you feel any better i dont either. You aren’t alone.

      • @Skullgrid
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        52 months ago

        thank you for trying to spread kindness and positivity

  • @Okokimup
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    82 months ago

    Putting in a plug for the Indyx app. You photo all your individual wardrobe pieces and use the app to make new outfits of them. I’ve found it helpful and fun.

    • @CluckN
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      52 months ago

      What a coincidence my frog just caught me looking at my bosses nudes.

  • @frickineh
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    42 months ago

    I’m trying to get dressed right now (obviously not very hard) and that’s where I’m at. I need to leave for work in like 10 minutes and everything I own is terrible.

    • Nougat
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      52 months ago

      Flip the script and wear the stupidest thing you can get away with at work.

      • @frickineh
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        32 months ago

        I just ended up with what was on top of the pile, sadly.

        • Nougat
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          22 months ago

          There’s always tomorrow.

          I am not a fashion icon by any stretch, and generally choose my clothes based purely on comfort. When I’m having a hard time with picking something that will make me “feel good,” switching to “What will give other people just a little chuckle?” always works for me.

          If a dapper outfit will draw attention, so will a silly one. And the silly one gives me more options with what to do with any attention I do get, because then I get to be silly, too.