• @TheDoozer
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    514 months ago

    So I get that most people assume these “converts” are full of shit and living a lie, and they’re actually gay, and blah blah blah.

    I’m sure many of them are, but I’d guess a lot of them are bisexual, and lacking any real empathy, they assume all gay men can just choose to only go for women, like they did. They still want dick (and sometimes go get it anyway), but are okay with marrying a woman and having kids, and trying to ignore the part of them that wants men. They think of it as “resisting temptation” the same way a straight man resists the temptation of women other than his wife.

    • @[email protected]
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      204 months ago

      One of the most eye opening statements i have ever heard was from one of the wirst tv shows on the planet, where a trans man talked about what it was like growing up in conservative america. Where he was so scared because he thought he was gay. Only to later learn that trans people even exist and that he’s not “just” gay. I’m some average run of the mill hetero, i never had to even think about these things. Boy like girls and that hit for me and i was done and never had to think about it again. I can’t even comprehend how hard it has to be to pretend to not like other boys growing up. Or the bombshell it must be to realize that this already complicated thing got even more complicated.

  • @thesporkeffect
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    214 months ago

    I hate to ask, but is Sniffies like grindr for coke dealers?

    • @BonesOfTheMoonOPM
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      144 months ago

      It’s a gay hookup site according to one of the RuPaul queens and apparently it’s quite wild.

      • @NegativeInf
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        114 months ago

        Am on sniffies. It is indeed wild AF. No app store guidelines to follow, so it’s the wild West of gay hookup apps.

        • paraphrand
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          44 months ago

          Proving the web is a viable alternative.

        • @BonesOfTheMoonOPM
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          34 months ago

          Manila Luzon talked about it on Nicole Byers podcast and it was eye opening.

  • Zier
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    164 months ago

    You can find this guy every Thursday evening, on his knees praying, in stall #3 of the men’s room in the rest stop, right outside of town. Praying that more men will come visit his mouth. No one can can change their sexuality.

  • @colderr
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    104 months ago

    This reads like something from Vought.

    • @SkybreakerEngineer
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      24 months ago

      If you mean Russell Vought, who basically wrote the current Republican platform and a good chunk of Project 2025, then yes.

      • @colderr
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        34 months ago

        Doesn’t matter if it’s, Vought from a show about superheroes or Vought from real life, at the end of the day, they are pretty much the same.

  • @Evotech
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    64 months ago

    Homo no mo kinda fire title

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      24 months ago

      I hope it catches on and becomes the new “no homo” This guy has some Lucius lips… Homo no mo.

  • @TargaryenTKE
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    64 months ago

    How does an adult look at “Master of Divinity” on a college application and not immediately conclude that it is a scam?