• @Duamerthrax
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    1002 months ago

    Cynics happen when skeptics are right for decades, but no one will listen to them.

  • haui
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    332 months ago

    Being cynical and defeatist is a coping mechanism. Like racism, its a form of dealing with a continuously shitty situation while not addressing the real problem.

    If you look at the small amount of people that drink 1000$ wine bottles for lunch while you‘re struggling to pay the rent, then you find the problem these cynics are unable to address.

    • Curious CanidOP
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      152 months ago

      I do understand. I am constantly fighting that myself. For me it’s an aspirational statement, not necessarily one I always manage to live.

      • haui
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        62 months ago

        Same. I mostly try to be honest with myself as I found that copium rarely is helpful. We‘re in this mess now and we can either sulk or get going. I choose to get going day after day. Hows that for aspirational statements? :)

        • Curious CanidOP
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          22 months ago

          It isn’t glamorous and it doesn’t grab headlines, but that is how these problems get fixed.

          • haui
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            12 months ago

            Fair enough. In bad times, that is true for me as well. But these times pass eventually. At least they always have in the past.

  • Boozilla
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    122 months ago

    A skeptic will seek more information. A cynic will just shit on it first and maybe (probably not) ask questions later.

    • HubertManne
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      42 months ago

      This is why I am much more of a cynic nowadays. So much fud and I can’t go down a rabbit hole with every one to determine why its wrong. Oh man and my wife stays informed with youtube.

      • @[email protected]
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        32 months ago

        It’s more important to have a reasonable stance, yourself, and in areas you can directly impact, than it is to establish truth in scenarios you have virtually no impact upon.

    • @[email protected]
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      22 months ago

      Is it because you think the idea is BS and you assume the worst or because you’re not convinced and the idea requires more evidence to back it up?

      • @[email protected]
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        22 months ago

        Oh sure, you’d love that wouldn’t you? Wouldn’t you? Probably. I don’t know, prove it to me.

        • @[email protected]
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          22 months ago

          So that’s a “yes“. Just as I thought! Although, with a sample size of just one, the result is hardly anecdotal, let alone statistically significant.

  • @yesman
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    62 months ago

    Classical cynics loved to ridicule society and exalt nature. Modern cynics ridicule society and exalt themselves.

    A cynic that owns a mortgage and a 401k is a bigger imposter than the tourist wearing a Che Guevara T-shirt in the Mall of America.

  • @Skepticpunk
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    2 months ago

    I’ve been trying. Unfortunately, people in power seem totally unresponsive to the needs of the people. Don’t know what the optimal solution for that is, but historically, the solution is usually something you’re not allowed to encourage on social media.

      • @phoneymouse
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        32 months ago

        Listen to the episode from last week “why cynicism is bad for you” … you’re on to something with your post here that is covered a lot in the episode.

    • @[email protected]
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      Give me a break! Are you fucking serious? I suppose this is to be expected from skibidi fucks like you, anyways.

      Edit: was that helpful? Trying to fill that void for you.

      • @[email protected]
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        12 months ago

        I get it, it’s hard to form sentences with proper words when all these curse words are so easy to use anywhere and anytime. Especially when you have to use difficult, intelligent or educated words like “Are you actually serious?” or “skibidi people”. I know it’s challenging for people like you, but I implore you to try “clean sardonicism”.

        Give it try, but beware, people might stop thinking you’re an asshole.

        (Ps, just playing along here, but this did trigger me. I do loath those people who just blatantly go around insulting everyone they disagree with online)

        • @[email protected]
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          12 months ago

          Absolutely. Well played, I think that’s a great example of the self-referential bullshit feedback loop of sardonic behavior. No actual trigger intended.