I got into VR during the pandemic which allowed me to socialize at any time (often in the wee hours) in VRChat. It absolutely helped my mental state at the time. I also discovered countless people using VR for other mental and physical health reasons. Ended up with a girlfriend who moved to my state (going on four years now). There are also worlds specifically for chilling out, sightseeing, nature etc. I would highly highly recommend it to anyone for VRChat alone (which is also free).

Eventually I branched out into other games and now I can’t go back to flat first person games. The immersion of VR can’t be described.

So yeah, 100% get a headset. Meta just announced new prices so you can get started for as little as $299 (for the Quest 3S). Obviously there are many other options out there (I personally like Pico) but I don’t know the specifics of your situation. Feel free to ask any questions.

my index hurts my eyes, even with corrective lenses, which stresses me out. i dunno, maybe there’s something about having big lamps 2cm in front of your eyeballs.

During the COVID restrictions, I used to use my Quest 1 with a free game called “Bait!”. Not because of the game itself, but because of the relaxing environments (pond, waterfall, etc.) and because it’s one of the rare game that you can play in an armchair.

For me my headset (Quest 1) is too uncomfortable to really be relaxing.