(I did not pee myself)

  • @[email protected]
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    382 months ago

    A ghost just told me that a CIA glowie gave you a 1 day ban from this community because of your comment

    This might be why. You are using 4chanisms therefore the probability of you being an incell is likely.

      • @jeffw
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        132 months ago

        lol you banned a guy because he said you write poorly?

        • dullbananas (Joseph Silva)OP
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          -72 months ago

          They did not say it respectfully. If this happened to someone else, then I would feel an obligation to take action. That comment is very opposite to my vision for the community.

          • @[email protected]
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            2 months ago

            Respect, like trust, is earned, never demanded and is easily lost.

            You can make others fear you with force, but if they do they’ll never properly respect you.

            Talking in oblique metaphors like the way you did to the person you banned won’t help them learn from their mistake either.

    • dullbananas (Joseph Silva)OP
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      -12 months ago

      Also I suspect that some people assume that I feel hurt from being single. Some possible factors:

      • For people who are less able to put a lot of energy into a non-urgent task, I think perceived urgency would be more likely to be the first explanation that comes to mind when reading about my experiences, because avoiding projection is complicated for all of us.
      • It’s hard for me to precisely describe mindsets that I have had, so I have used vague descriptions, and that might leave room for various interpretations. A severe example is when I used the phrase “almost like a goal”.
      • @jeffw
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        2 months ago

        Honestly the post was almost relatable (a little over the top) until you started getting into Satan and marriage. Like what?

        The “I’m trying to impress you” thing was cringe though.

          • @jeffw
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            12 months ago

            I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic

            • dullbananas (Joseph Silva)OP
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              12 months ago

              I’m not being sarcastic. I’m so used to toxic Lemmy users that I didn’t realize how surprising it is that typical feedback is much worse than yours. While I mostly disagree with your comment, it is unique because I don’t need more clarification of it.