• @TheBananaKing
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    2530 days ago

    Good lord, speak plainly.

    That’s more of a swingers thing than a poly thing.

    In the vast majority of poly relationships, people are in separate relationships with each of their partners.

    Triads (and quads, etc) are hard-mode. They certainly exist, but they take skill and effort from everyone involved, and so are significantly more rare. And of those, probably only a minority are going to be into the whole group-sex thing in the first place so… not very often.

  • @[email protected]
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    1530 days ago

    Sorry I don’t have a stake in this question, but what does “fall into more than two” mean?

    • @psion1369OP
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      230 days ago

      More than two people in bed.

  • @[email protected]
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    830 days ago

    I tried it. Basically all the time. Turned out to be a nightmare pretty quick. Don’t recommend unless you have exceptional communication skills and a lot of self confidence.

    • @[email protected]
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      429 days ago

      Yeah without any stated stake in this, this seems to be just looking for free smut to read. This isn’t the place.

      • @psion1369OP
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        129 days ago

        Not looking for smut to read, just looking to see how often open tries actually happen.

    • @psion1369OP
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      129 days ago

      I would like to explain that I’m not looking for dirty stories and such. I have been exploring the more extreme tropes in porn to see if they happen IRL or not. Probably should have explained better, but there it is. There are some ideas used that are rather extreme, and I start wondering how much it actually happens.