With it becoming increasingly clear that Donald Trump will almost certainly win the US election, the moderators and I felt it important to say a few words and direct people to crisis support resources.

We know this outcome is devastating for so many of us. It’s difficult to see the outcome we feared come to pass, and it’s completely understandable to feel heartbroken, fearful, or even numb. We need to come together as a community now more than ever. We need to support each other. We need to ensure no one is alone in their fear or pain.

The challenges ahead may seem insurmountable and frankly overwhelming, but our voices and actions are still powerful. Staying engaged in your local community, in advocacy, and ensuring our voices are not silenced is more crucial now than ever.

Crisis Support

If you or someone you know needs immediate support, here are some US-based resources (from GLAAD):

We do not consider the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline a safe resource for the trans community due to their history of involving local law enforcement without the caller’s consent, which can result in indefinite detainment.

Mutual Aid

Now is the time to lean into local resources and community groups. The people around you, especially other LGBTQ+ advocates and allies, can be a source of great strength and stability. Here are a few ways to connect:

The best mutual aid and support is local. We encourage everyone to research trans advocacy groups around them, local queer facebook pages, and keep connected with their community.

Moving Forward

While the outcome is devastating, our community is strong. It’s important to remember that progress in queer and minority rights has always been a story of hard fought battles through adversity. In moments like these, we stand on the shoulders of those who fought the battles before us. This is a time to lean on each other, amplify our voices, and advocate for the protections and rights we deserve. Organize, reach out, educate, and support one another as we move forward. Every action counts — from contacting representatives to showing up for each other in times of need.

Please stay safe and take care of yourself, especially in the coming days.

  • cowboycrustation [he/him]M
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    1615 hours ago

    I have no fucking idea the path that my life is gonna take. Things were looking up and all I wanted was to finish the college of my dreams and enjoy my life. I have absolutely no idea what to do now. I do have citizenship in another country that I can flee to but that means leaving my friends, family, and education behind. What’s gonna happen :/

  • Emily (she/her)OPM
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    10724 hours ago

    This message was prepared ahead of time, along with one for Kamala Harris. I am sorry that this is the one we had to post. We will be monitoring the community closely over the next few days to redirect anyone in need to appropriate resources.

    • @[email protected]
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      3623 hours ago

      I’m Canadian. But my trans sister and her wife live in Oregon. They’re planning to visit our parents in December. Hopefully the wheels of fascist government change grind slow enough for them to still get out. I’m not religious, but I’m praying all of you are safe in the months to come.

      • @adj16
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        516 hours ago

        Trump doesn’t take office this year. That’s not to say there won’t still be effects this year, but before January most things should still be relatively unchanged by his hands.

        • @[email protected]
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          213 hours ago

          I’m dearly hoping that the whackjobs don’t decide to just kick it off early. I had a really bad panic attack this morning. I’m a bit better now, but still trying to stop feeling like today has been the start of a massive existential crisis.

      • @Burn_The_Right
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        2623 hours ago

        If it’s any consolation, Oregon, Washington and California are probably the three safest states to be in for trans folks right now. I don’t know how long that will last, but it will be more time than people in red states.

        • @[email protected]
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          2323 hours ago

          Probably the three safest states

          If you’re in an urban centre. The boonies are still very red. And they’re in the boonies. About 45mins out of Port Orford.

          • @[email protected]
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            919 hours ago

            The biggest misconception about “the South” is that its contained to the South. Culturally, “the South” is everywhere more than 20-30 minutes out of any population center.

            • @[email protected]
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              216 hours ago

              It’s a symptom of one of the great things about America. The freedom of movement.
              Also a symptom of living in isolated conditions. As a generalisation, living in a major metropolitan area means being exposed to a load of different types of people. Can’t hate all black/LGBTQ2S+/Muslim/Asian folk when you interact with them every day.
              Unfortunately we’re pretty tribal by nature. Always looking for the other to be against.

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            Damn. I have found it impossible to get citizenship in Canada, despite so many saying it’s easy.

            If they are unable to escape to Canada, a move to the Portland area or maybe even Tacoma or Marysville would be the next safest (and somewhat affordable) places in my opinion.

            • @[email protected]
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              1520 hours ago

              Anyone who says it’s easy to get citizenship or immigration status for any western country is either lying or doesn’t have a clue.
              Depending on how things go in the States, refugee status might be doable. That said it’s looking more and more like the Tories might get in power, which means Canada might not be all that much safer…

  • @[email protected]
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    816 hours ago

    Trans woman here in New Mexico. I know I’m in a blue state, but I’m still terrified. Thank you for the Matrix guide, hopefully we can all be there for each other during this time! Sending love to all of the sweet and amazing folks outside of the US for your support and encouragement ❤️❤️🏳️‍⚧️

  • Thelsim
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    1719 hours ago

    I’m so devastated to see this happening and am still processing it myself.
    Please take care. Best of luck and lots of love from across the pond to all of you.

  • jawa21
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    2020 hours ago

    As angry as I am, I agree that we have to be strong and support each other now more than ever. I can only offer the support I can. For the entire trans community, I made [email protected]. If you need encouragement in this particular kind of dysphoria, the community is there.

    Other things we can do is share tips about being safe. I’ve been tempted to make a community focused on that, but situations vary so much that it’d be hard to pinpoint good tips.

    Stay safe. Please. And know that at least this one internet stranger does in fact give a shit about you. DM me if you need someone to talk to.

  • @MissyBee
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    3723 hours ago

    Hugs from a German sister. It is unbelieveable. I am sad and lost for words.

  • Cattypat
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    1420 hours ago

    I love you all. I’m on the younger end of Lemmy users here and I have never faced anything that feels this life-changing. Maybe even the older users haven’t, I’m not sure. Get out of this country if you can, and if you can’t, organize organize ORGANIZE. We can only rely on eachother now. Work on yourself as well. We all need some intragroup love now.

  • @inb4_FoundTheVegan
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    2923 hours ago

    I applaud the wisdom to prepare words while we are lost for them now.

  • @Lumisal
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    2322 hours ago

    I’m trying to spread this around as much as I can right now, but starting 2025, you don’t be able to travel to the EU anymore with just a passport, and will need a Visa.

  • @[email protected]
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    2723 hours ago

    Copying my comment from another thread:

    I don’t know what I can do to help anyone, are there any organisations which directly protect, or perhaps help relocate at risk trans people that I can throw money at?

    I had a look through the listed resources but nothing jumped out to me, perhaps I missed something though.

    • Emily (she/her)OPM
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      1823 hours ago

      I’m on my phone right now so sorry for the short reply. Will expand when I get the chance (other people please pitch in).

      TransLifeline used to offer microgrants until they ran into financial issues, giving them some donations would go a long way.

      Both they and The Trevor Project also offer crisis support lines. I’m sure they’re busy right now and you should consider giving them your support as well.

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    3 steps back 4 steps forward I guess, that’s how progress in general usually goes