Hi All,

Due to some overbearing/draconian laws coming into place in the UK, I need to take steps to protect the site long term. You may have already seen this post in /c/technology which proves that these laws have a real negative effect on small independent websites, especially those hosted/run by people in the UK.

While I assume this will play out the same as GDPR did and actually most things will be fine, one thing that continues to be an issue is how Lemmy handles NSFW content and account creation.

Currently Lemmy.zip offers accounts to anyone 13+ (or whatever the minimum age is in your country), and asks that you only activate the NSFW flag if you are 18+.

However we have no way to enforce that, nor turn if off if someone says they’re under 18, nor really any way of monitoring that process. Lemmy does not currently give admins the ability to add extra confirmations about age, or a customisable pop up warning when that flag is clicked, or the ability to add more text to the button, or anything like that during the signup process, without creating custom UI stuff (which I am not able to do). The outcome of this is that anyone is able to just click the “Enable NSFW” flag during signup or in their profile settings, and view NSFW content, without any explicit check.

It would be great if the functionality of Lemmy was changed to make this more accommodating to children so they can’t access NSFW content, however that could take a long time to implement and I want this site to be safe before this law comes in to effect in March.

In order to make things as simple as possible going forwards, I am therefore proposing:

From the 1st of February 2025, Lemmy.zip will only offer a service to people who are over 18.

Before I go any further with this, I am asking all Lemmy.zip users to share their thoughts on what this change might mean. I know the Fediverse tends to skew older, but I am also aware that this might affect some current users too.

I am not asking anyone under 18 to dox themselves either, if you’re worried this might apply to you, you are more than welcome to reach out via PMs or preferably Matrix (my link is in my profile).

This restriction makes it clear that you must be 18 to have an account on the site and therefore removes some of the burden on the age verification, and although it isn’t the perfect solution, it moves us slightly further away from any grey areas in the law.

There is an alternative though. I could turn off NSFW completely and then no one would be able to see any content marked NSFW, even if it’s not actually NSFW. This obviously isn’t something I want to do either.

Happy to hear thoughts/concerns, but would appreciate any feedback either way on this. I’ll leave this up a couple of days to give people a chance to read it.

Thanks

Demigodrick


Footnotes:

  • some of this actually already exists under The Digital Economy Act 2017 (age verification), and the upcoming Online Safety Bill puts further duties on websites to shield children from NSFW content, which is where the software lacks in features.

  • The Ofcom Online Safety Bill guidelines are over 1000 pages long. There is no provision for small independent websites, they are lumped in with the likes of Meta. Ofcom seem to think paying tens of thousands of pounds to update websites with their suggestions is “reasonable”. It is clearly not.

  • @[email protected]
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    33 hours ago

    As a dad I approve of this message. I mainly use this instance for news which by default is open to interpretation & requires a little extra effort than I would expect anyone as young as 13 to automatically engage with.

    • DemigodrickOPM
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      42 hours ago

      We are actually hosted in Finland at the moment, but this law affects me as a UK citizen providing services to other UK citizens. A few ideas have been brought up that I’m going to look into around moving lemmy.zip as an entity outside the UK, or refusing service to people in the UK.

  • @[email protected]
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    96 hours ago

    When it comes to legality it is not reasonable for us to ask instance admins to risk themselves over something like age requirements for NSFW content. I fully agree with this decision if you feel it is necessary to protect yourself, which seems to be the correct take.

    As long as I don’t have to give personal, identifying info, I’m down.

  • @[email protected]
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    1113 hours ago

    To be honest, if this protects the longevity of this site then I think it’s OK.

    It’s legal issue and we don’t really have much choice but to follow, if a simple checkbox (We all know that is going to stop no one) is going to save us problem, then I don’t see why not.

  • @HeyThisIsntTheYMCA
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    411 hours ago

    Kids never lie about their age to watch internet porn. They also never lie about their age to click a button allowing NSFW content or when registering for a social media site.

    • DemigodrickOPM
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      79 hours ago

      Absolutely, but then they’ve lied instead of us willingly offering a service. It’s not the perfect solution by a long shot, but it’s a step in the right direction for now

  • Lumun
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    310 hours ago

    Seems fine to me. I’d even be okay with full NSFW blocking if that seems safer legally speaking. Do what you gotta do to reduce any danger to yourself.

  • @[email protected]
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    I think out of all the options, this one is the most reasonable. As long as it doesn’t involve providing ID.

    The UK governments overreach here is absolutely ridiculous. Isn’t the de-facto E2EE encryption ban coming into effect soon too?

    EDIT: Oh. I think this is the same legislation :/

    • DemigodrickOPM
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      19 hours ago

      Yeah, further evidence that the UK government is incompetent.

  • @[email protected]
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    it sounds like the people calling these shots (who also have no fucking clue how the internet works) are trying to force everyone to upload their photo ID to some third party age verification business, which i will 100% NOT do.

    it’s mind-bogglingly stupid. what kid over 2 years old doesn’t know where dad keeps his wallet and when is a good time to snap a picture of his ID to upload? also, who’s getting the shit end of the stick when these age verification sites inevitably get hacked, and now your ID is all over the dark web? it sure as hell won’t be the verification site

    if it has to be zero NSFW, at least for the time being, then that’s what it has to be.

  • Otherbarry
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    413 hours ago

    The whole thing sucks but your approach seems reasonable. In the grand scheme of things I’d prefer to be on an instance that allows NSFW even if that’s not what I’m normally interacting with on Lemmy. Plus a lot of things get lumped into the NSFW category which makes me wonder what else you’d end up blocking besides the pr0n stuff.

    Maybe the alternative approach is just to not bother hosting in the UK while this legislation is active but I can appreciate that may not be something you want to bother pursuing.

    • DemigodrickOPM
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      59 hours ago

      Yeah, turning off NSFW also kills the ability to have image spoilers, interact with art communities, and work with any community that uses it for things like content warnings instead of adult entertainment. Not something I’d want to do.

      Unfortunately the scope of this law is for any site offering a service to a UK resident (completely unenforceable and written by insane people) and i have the misfortune of living in the UK so it doubly applies to me.

      Suggestions for setting up a company in another country do sound appealing to get around this though, but sounds costly.

  • @[email protected]
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    If age verification is anything more than check box to confirm you’re over 18, then unfortunately bye bye. As for blocking NSFW I also don’t want. As there’s no way to block porn and leave other NSFW posts. I understand you have to do what you have to do, but this would kill this otherwise excellent instance.

    Edit. Actual age verification, like send in a photo of your license is a hard no. But a DM to everyone saying by continuing to use you confirm you are over 18 and a check box on sign up or similar sounds reasonable.

    • DemigodrickOPM
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      With the current UI there is just check boxes to enable/disable NSFW. Even if you had to explicitly tick a box to say you are 18 before the NSFW box was visible would be a good solution, I think.

      I certainly do not want to turn NSFW off at all though, just highlighting that its an extreme option, and with the current way things work with Lemmy there is no in between.

      I also would absolutely not want to deal with checking people’s IDs, nobody has time for that!

    • @[email protected]
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      318 hours ago

      Same. I will not dox myself for access to this instance. Even if it’s to a third party that pinky swears not to disclose my identity. I’ll set up my own instance if necessary.

      I guess I’m fine with a checkbox but what’s even the point in that case.

    • DemigodrickOPM
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      Maybe (hopefully!)

      Once the risk assessment is released and I’ve had chance to scour 1000+ pages of guidance, it is possible. It was a thought in the back of my mind, yes. Will have to look at the wording, and USA is still COPPA i believe which is 13+, although I need to do some research how that works regarding NSFW content

  • Firestorm Druid
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    1521 hours ago

    I think this is fine just to be on the safe side with the law - reddit had, and probably has, the same restriction in place.

    Unless Lemmy implements age verification, you can just lie about your age, though, so even if you were underage, nothing changes for people signing up, really, does it?

    • DemigodrickOPM
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      1021 hours ago

      Yeah absolutely, it doesn’t stop anyone lying about their age. I’m hoping it’s just enough to say that if someone was to report it to whoever, we can turn around and say “they lied about their age”. We could even do it now, but the enable NSFW buttons have no surrounding text to repeat the age warning (and there’s nothing at all in the profile option!) which is what worries me the most.

    • AnyOldName3
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      IIRC, Reddit just had the 13+ age limit mandated by COPPA. I’m guessing they’ll have to make the NSFW restrictions more of a hassle than just a checkbox, but they’re a huge company that can afford to do what they want.

  • Possibly linux
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    920 hours ago

    It is kind of crazy that this exists all. What’s even more crazy is that it seems to apply to people not living in the UK. I wonder if it would be possible for you to create a legal entity that is a foreign country that you work for as a foreign worker.

    • DemigodrickOPM
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      920 hours ago

      Yeah, its insane. They expect this to be done by every website providing services to UK users. The overreach is just mad. And completely unenforceable too.

      I imagine many UK sites will go down that route, especially with how many Mastadon servers there are in the UK. I’d be up for doing that if it was feasible (financially and technically).

    • DemigodrickOPM
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      720 hours ago

      It does, which I did have a look at, but it only displays once (and maybe feels a touch overbearing for just a general instance where you might see nsfw?)

      Mainly it doesn’t stop anyone from activating NSFW content - I think my biggest worry is the toggle in the user settings has no warnings or anything.

      • @[email protected]
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        15 hours ago

        But if you have a one time pop up, or warning, or whatever, on the one thing you can control (the sign ups) does that not cover you? The rest is lemmy itself or app creators, and should not cause you legal issues? Idk with fediverse stuff that is a bit weird so how that works.

        I am fine with moving age to 18, removing all NSFW would be sad to miss a few posts because of a country I don’t even live in.

        • DemigodrickOPM
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          14 hours ago

          Unfortunately it’s not really clear at the moment. I’m hoping it will cover us, and by enforcing our T&cs we’re fine. However they may be requesting age validation. At least making it 18+ puts us in the right direction for now, and worry about the rest in the new year. There will be some way around it.