I consider myself unlikeable as well but all my real life interactions with other people indicate otherwise. At some point the pile of evidence to the contrary stacks so high that I need to consider wether I might be wrong. Not there yet though.
I remember having interactions with you and did not find you unlikable! I’m sure you too are missed in the worldspace as well.
I hope you are doing alright.
There is probably some movie theater ticket taker missing an old balding man showing up twice a week and trying to talk his way into a free popcorn.
It’s important to remember that we all see ourselves in a distorted way, as we are living through our own experience. The marks we leave on others are hard for us to know. I’m sure there are more people that you have left a positive mark on that you will never know about. There is always time to make new ones. Possibly free popcorn!
I try to be nice online because I’m basically an asshole irl
A classic example of the duality of (hu)man(s)…
(hu)man(being)(kind)(s)