For me… yea that’s gonna be a challenge. I’m glad a text-based social platform exist, I hate talking. Maybe I’d just use morse code…?

  • @[email protected]
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    911 hours ago

    It’s not so much lack of courage as it is I don’t want to talk to you. I certainly don’t want to hear all of you. Hell I avoid spoken social media now as it is.

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      Yeah, there’s days I can’t even listen to podcasts or the radio with people I actually like hearing because I’m so sick of listening to people talk. No fucking way I’d be interested in listening to randos and I hate talking.

  • @[email protected]
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    812 hours ago

    A large subset of introverts won’t use text based communications such as this; they lurk so whatever negative response here need a multiplier applied.

    The 90-9-1 rule would indicate the factor is 9.

    • @MintyFresh
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      90 lurkers, nine commenters, and one poster?

  • @tankplanker
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    Speaking as someone who fits the description and currently working on my license for UK Ham (direct to full) I will be using voice. Reason being calling a CQ is pretty structured and you can read it off a script, the response is fairly structured as well, and you can just do that if you want, no obligation to branch off into actual unstructured conversation unless you want to.

    Plus as others have mentioned there are plenty of ways were you can still participate without having to physically speak to other people, RTTY or automatically translated morse would be ok.

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    The first time that I tried chatting in a game, the original Modern Warfare 2, I was shaking like a damn washing machine trying to type out some “g Ood ShoT m An” to some other player. But I made myself do it. You don’t get anywhere without practice.

    So, I would, yes. Courage is a virtue. It’s strength.

  • Ms. ArmoredThirteen
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    917 hours ago

    Am trans, crippling anxiety of having to explain my voice to people. In person I can at least hide behind my titties and give people who accidentally misgender me the eyebrow raise

    • dave@hal9000
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      You just flipped that whole thing on its head pretty well… And also reminded me of one of two most cringiest times in my life where I misgendered someone. She worked at my local grocery shop and I had known her throughout her transition, but as an immigrant in Texas I was really keen on my “yes Ma’am” and " yes Sir" and I pulled out a “thank you sir” when visiting after a long time and she called me out on it as she should have… I felt like a dick, yet somehow did it again with a student of mine years later. I wish I had my wife’s excuse (she comes from a language that doesn’t have gendered pronouns and goes about her day confusedly dispensing he or shes in a totally random pattern 😂)

  • Singletona082
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    Morse code.

    Plus there are all the digital modes, and back in 96? I… genuinely found interest and joy in packet radio.

    Plus there were dial up BBS’s, and through the magic of FIDOnet you could still reach an amazingly long range.

    Then there is the fact that if you had an account and access number to the local server node. There was Usenet.

    Asking what happens without the internet misses and disregards all of these more localized digital communities.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nO5vjmDFZaI

  • @[email protected]
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    2823 hours ago

    Tbh I’d probably just stick to books and stuff if ham radio would be my only option. I was reluctant to get into social media in the first place anyway.

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    These days there is FT8, where the whole conversation follows a template (callsign, callsign, signal strength on a scale of 1 to 9, goodbye) and is just a few dozen characters long. It can be completely automated, so you can have one to one contacts with hundreds of total strangers in just a few hours, with your radio doing all the talking so you don’t have to show your vulnerable side. You can sleep or play tetris through the whole session, and then get a list afterwards showing the different countries where your radio has gotten to know people (or at least other radios). It is great for shy hams.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/FT8

  • @Randelung
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    I didn’t want to join a WoW guild bc they mandated TS - which obviously makes sense. Back then, no chance. Today? Maybe? If there’s an interesting conversation.