cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/323205

I keep seeing communities on lemmy writing in their bio “not official” or in some way deferring to the reddit community. I also see them writing that they’re willing to give up their community to the reddit mods if they ask. It’s like the whole place has imposter syndrome.

We’re the adults, guys.

We’re here. This is our community now. We broke up with that site, and we are making a new one. Run your community the way you think it should be run. Their communities are not any more official than ours. This is our place, not theirs.

We’re the adults. We’re the mods. We’re the community.

  • DarkThoughts
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    551 year ago

    Please don’t give up your place for Reddit mods. A lot of them are abusive shitheads and by no means more qualified to do this than anyone else.

    • @[email protected]
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      111 year ago

      Yeah, we don’t want to become reddit mods. They have been power tripping for too many years and live sad lives, and the stereotype was just proven true when spes threatened to strip them from their power. We can be so much better than fucking reddit mods.

  • BrooklynMan
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    1 year ago

    hear hear.

    i posted this yesterday, but i’ll post it here again, just as a reminder:

    • @[email protected]
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      191 year ago

      You can post pictures in comments?? I was so confused thinking i scrolled to another posts for a sec.

        • @slin
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          21 year ago

          They are not visible in Mlem.

          • @samus12345
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            21 year ago

            That’s confusing. Would be nice if it at least mentioned there was an image there.

            • @slin
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              21 year ago

              The images actually load, but not instantly for me. I need to revisit a post/comment to see them.

          • BrooklynMan
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            21 year ago

            Mlem is an early beta and is not feature complete. You should learn to be patient.

          • @berkeleyblue
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            11 year ago

            I am on MLEM (Version: 0.0.7 (23)) I’m seeing them. Have you maybe missed an update?

            • @slin
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              11 year ago

              No, but they appeared after I revisited this page. Thanks.

      • Fredselfish
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        71 year ago

        Best feature I love here and also can control the text as well. Always wanted to add pics in comments without having to link to imgur now we can.

    • Rosyuo
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      81 year ago

      Of all memes, I was not expecting a DS9 one, bravo

      • DoucheAsaurus
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        171 year ago

        Corporations are killing their own platforms and the nerds are building their own decentralized social media network. The internet is healing.

    • @[email protected]
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      11 year ago

      Is this actually happening? Reddit bots posting negative impact content to torpedo Lemmy?

      I know the other day I saw John Oliver and Disney on the front page. I hope those users gets banned.

  • @[email protected]
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    361 year ago

    Sure, except i don’t have time to be a proper mod (and that includes due diligence in vetting new mods) so it’s easiest to just let the old reddit mods have it. I haven’t started any communities but i definitely understand why people would want the reddit mods to retake control of a given community, and if i do start one i’d put that in the description as well

    • @New_account
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      171 year ago

      I’m kind of in the same spot. I created a community for Playstation Plus on Lemmy.World (no idea how to link it though). It’s mostly just a reminder to claim the free monthly games they give out, a place to discuss the free games, a place to speculate on upcoming free games, etc… By default, I’m a moderator over there now, but I have no interest in dedicating a ton of time to it. For now, post volume is basically zero, so there’s nothing to do from a mod POV, but I have no idea what I would do if the place grows and starts getting spammed with unrelated content.

      • Omega
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        21 year ago

        Subbed. I’m sorry.

      • jelloeater - Ops Mgr
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        11 year ago

        Ppl can click on your profile and see where you mod and sub 🙂

  • HidingCat
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    311 year ago

    Speaking as a (for now) mod on reddit, I don’t owe anyone the right to mod another community; I’m happy to offer advice from my previous experience, but if others want to be a mod they can go ahead.

    The bit about letting the previous reddit mods take over is really weird to me. None of us own our respective community in any way. Also why I (and the rest of the mod team) aren’t forcing any kind of migration, it should be voluntary.

  • JCSpark
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    301 year ago

    Thank you for this. The imposter syndrome is real, especially starting what were some larger subreddits (gifs, coolguides, Shiba, and helping with Today I Learned). It’s been fun and I’m super happy to see the interactions and genuine conversation. We’re certainly our own community, and I’m so happy the fediverse is growing into something I can easily burn time on here and there.

  • nosut
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    221 year ago

    I think a part of the “giving up to reddit mods” is the hopes that it will incentivise the reddit mods to push their subreddit to the community instead of trying to keep people on reddit just to maintain power.

    Personally I have made several communities that I enjoyed in reddit. While I dont mind modding it’s kind of a pain in the ass as well though.

    • megane-kun
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      61 year ago

      This is my thought as well, it’s not so much as deferring as it is offering them an incentive to migrate. Having a “seal of approval” from the corresponding subreddit also helps in attracting more activity from those who are part of the migration and on the fence about contributing.

      I’ve never started a community here, nor do I intend to, but if I were in that situation, I’d at least reach out to my counterpart subreddit.

    • @OtakuAltair
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      1 year ago

      I’d add in the sidebar an invitation to the reddit mods, and just people in general, to mod them too; I bet alot of them might want to just to maintain power like you said.

      And thank you for your service 🙏🙏

  • minnieo
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    201 year ago

    i offered to let r/SilentHill mods mod on @SilentHill because 1. I swiped the name up and 2. I want to encourage more migration in the name of the protests

  • eatmoregreenfood
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    201 year ago

    Hi from kbin. I run what we call a magazine or zine if you’re from the early 90s. Mine is found at http://kbin.social/m/tvsuggestions. It’s obviously for people to recommend or ask for suggestions about television or streaming episodic media. E.g. You can say “I’m looking for urban fantasy from before 9/11”. And someone might say Buffy. Anyway. Join it and let’s all love one the most pervasive and greatest mediums of art: television.

    • @CAVOK
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  • Ni
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    171 year ago

    Love this sentiment! I think we are in a bit of a teething period where people aren’t quite sure but hopefully everyone embraces and contributes!

    • @ewe
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      11 year ago

      I just wanted there to be a place for people to go to if they end up here! I have heard what it takes to mod and I absolutely don’t have it!

  • Manu
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    171 year ago

    Hi from Feddit! I‘ve been a passionate bass player for nearly 2 decades now and started a Bass related community over at [email protected], feel welcome to join me and have a chat about your favorite artist, gear, pedals, playing gigs and whatever else comes to mind!

  • @[email protected]
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    141 year ago

    This is the dawn of a new era. The dark times preceding it will fade into legend and myth. Future generations will look back and see these communities as where it all began. Always remember that you mods, new and old alike, didn’t bring down the sword on the old age. You picked it up when the call to action rang out.

  • ඞmir
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    1 year ago

    I created [email protected] for League of Legends players. Not many migrated due to the subreddit not participating in the blackout but we’re still growing. Come join if you’re an active player or just interested :)