• @[email protected]
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    Save your sister, she is not okay. You are not an inferior person, there is nothing inherently wrong with you. You are not responsible for everything. Your boundaries matter. Your feelings matter. You will be okay.

  • @[email protected]
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    221 year ago

    You fight much bigger problems that others around you. Your way of thinking is definitely not normal, seek diagnosis and help. Life is not supposed to be this complicated mentally.

  • Omnifarious
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    171 year ago

    Hit the gym and stay consistent about it. Not only will you feel better about yourself you’ll also be able to manage the physical pain you will have a lot better.

  • Ms. ArmoredThirteen
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    161 year ago

    “You’re trans lul, and don’t worry about coming out your mom is nice and dad doesn’t give a fuck” Honestly would probably make my childhood harder but would make my mid/late teens onward a lot less confusing and painful.

  • @captainlezbian
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    131 year ago

    You’re trans and mom’s headaches aren’t normal she needs to get them checked out

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    Whatever comes of it—whether you get hurt, or whether you get suspended—you just need to lay your bullies out.

    They won’t ignore you. They won’t go away, no matter how hard you work to be unnoticeable. It’s trying to do that—to be invisible so that they’ll leave you alone—that will change the course of your life for the worse. You won’t be a high achiever, you won’t go to a good school, you’ll just coast, forever suffering the damage they did, and regretting that you didn’t do anything about it.

    The only thing they’ll understand is the kind of violence that says you’re not worth fucking with. Don’t worry what Mom will think. Don’t worry about the pain of a punch or two. Don’t worry about your “permanent record”. All that will be temporary in the grand scheme of things.

    • @[email protected]
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      31 year ago

      I am sorry to hear that. It is not your fault. It is the fault of the bullies who did it and it is the fault of the adults that did not protect you. You were just a child. You cannot be expected to solve something so difficult as bullying all by yourself. Many adults cannot even do that. Apparently, the adults in your environment could not solve it, so how could you be expected to do it?

      Regretting it does not help. Regretting it just prolongs the pain. It just keeps the idea alive that it is somehow your own fault and that you had control. You did not have control. However, you do have control now.

      If you still feel invisible, do something about it. You do not need to still keep suffering the damage. That is something you actually can do something about now.

    • @MisterHavoc
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      21 year ago

      I’m sorry this happened to you. I hope you are well.

  • @[email protected]
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    121 year ago

    You’re experiencing abuse and it’s not normal. You also don’t have to put up with your family because they’re your family.

  • @malchior
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    111 year ago

    You’ll regret buying Heroes of Might and Magic 3, but you’ll soon appreciate its greatness. Also, hold off buying a game called Skyrim until the Anniversary Edition releases.

    • @[email protected]
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      01 year ago

      Ah yeah, just withdraw all the liquidity that is most certainly there…

      You have just demonstrated more faith in neolib pretendy dollaridos than I have or will never have.

  • @[email protected]
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    101 year ago
    • See a psy doc when you’re a teenager. Your teachers asking “Is everything ok? Is something wrong?” out of the blue are red flags that you need help.
    • When in doubt, forgive others