“I use signal. If you care about our friendship, you’ll install it too.”
I have friends that got it just for me. I also lost some so-called “friends”
EDIT:
just to add some context:
I explained the reasons to this “friend” I told him about privacy, about foss, about owning my data, about making my own backups, how important that was to me.
His answer: “I am not gonna install a different messenger just for you. I thought you valuated our friendship. I can see now how little it means to you”
So, yeah… make your own conclusions.
Besides that, I live in a country that take decisions about you based on your social media opinions.
I explained the reasons to this “friend” I told him about privacy, about foss, about owning my data, about making my own backups, how important that was to me.
His answer: “I am not gonna install a different messenger just for you. I thought you valuated our friendship. I can see now how little it means to you”…
I’m not gonna change my post, it’s the same statement, just different context lol
If that’s really how they said it, you’re better off. There’s a million ways to talk with someone and the way you pick shouldn’t be the break of a relationship.
“I use signal. If you care about our friendship, you’ll install it too.”
I have friends that got it just for me. I also lost some so-called “friends”
EDIT:
just to add some context:
I explained the reasons to this “friend” I told him about privacy, about foss, about owning my data, about making my own backups, how important that was to me.
His answer: “I am not gonna install a different messenger just for you. I thought you valuated our friendship. I can see now how little it means to you”
So, yeah… make your own conclusions.
Besides that, I live in a country that take decisions about you based on your social media opinions.
The best kinds of friendships are those where one makes demands under threat of ending the friendship.
Nup.
I explained the reasons to this “friend” I told him about privacy, about foss, about owning my data, about making my own backups, how important that was to me.
His answer: “I am not gonna install a different messenger just for you. I thought you valuated our friendship. I can see now how little it means to you”…
So, yeah… make your own conclusions.
Not gonna lie, that’s pretty toxic.
I can see how my original comment was pretty much context-less… I edited it to added some
I’m not gonna change my post, it’s the same statement, just different context lol
If that’s really how they said it, you’re better off. There’s a million ways to talk with someone and the way you pick shouldn’t be the break of a relationship.
“I use Facebook Messenger. If you care about our friendship, you’ll install it too.”
Now what?
I can see how my original comment was pretty much context-less… I edited it to added some
It’s not friends I miss though, it’s community groups.