He doesn’t deserve my mother, he doesn’t deserve me… (which is why I finally decided to go no contact) but it sucks because I love my mother so much, yet she never left him. And thus Im forced to be around him.

Will she refuse to see you if you don’t include him? As in, can you meet her outside their home so you can still be in her life without having to interact with him?

Out of pure curiosity…what is an “N dad”?

You and your dad IRL: