• Mycatiskai@lemmy.ca
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    5 days ago

    Side by side masturbation, sometimes there’s no time for full on sex. Instead of not doing anything because it’s midweek, touch yourself and eachother but don’t have intercourse.

    • pinkpint@lemmynsfw.com
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      13 hours ago

      This! Even when you have plenty of time, mutual masturbation can be good to take it slow and make it last longer. Especially if you’re not touching each other, you’re both in control and get to watch each other enjoying yourselves.

    • FoolsQuartz@lemmynsfw.com
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      4 days ago

      I think simple things like this add to the longevity of a couples’ sex life.

      The people who get bored of sex are the ones who try for pornstar sex every time, in my opinion.

      They need to have an appreciation of sex for all the different things it can be and all the ways they can have it.

  • Taiatari@lemmynsfw.com
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    5 days ago

    Talking about current fantasies and kinks, ideally more than once because they change. Sex gets better when you talk about the wants and needs.

  • prac
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    5 days ago

    Just laydown and look into the sky for half an hour and talk

  • FoolsQuartz@lemmynsfw.com
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    4 days ago

    Nudist beach or naked days at home together. Understand this isn’t sexual, but about intimacy nonetheless.

  • Siriousproblums@lemmynsfw.com
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    4 days ago

    Meet up as if you don’t know each other. Show up to a bar/event separate. Flirt all night and hook up. If you’re down for a little risk, the hook up can be semi public. Then you head home separately