I posted something similar before, but it did not gain too much traction, possibly due to time zones.

It would be cool to see a Lemmy online pen pal/chat pal thread. Tell us about yourself and your hobbies in comments! I’m a person in their 20s who likes world football, theoretical maths and physics, and FOSS stuff. I also like the outdoors and would love to share about outdoor adventures. Feel free to send me a message if you’d like to talk!

  • @Badass_panda
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    172 years ago

    I have a hobby of trying out new hobbies till I’ve accumulated a bunch of stuff, then losing interest and doing new hobbies!

    I’ve stuck with carpentry/woodworking, wine / beer making / distilling spirits, and outdoorsy hobbies like skiing / sailing.

    Like others here I really enjoy reading, video games, etc. Getting back into scuba!

    • MrsEaves
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      I have a hobby of trying out new hobbies till I’ve accumulated a bunch of stuff, then losing interest and doing new hobbies!

      ah, my people

    • @Pmmeyourtoaster
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      • Native plants
      • Software
      • Sustainability
      • Hound dogs
      • Graphic Design
      • @Badass_panda
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        Okay so I’m with you on the hound dogs, those fuckers are the best boys, every single one of em including the girls

    • @3rdBlueWizard
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      22 years ago

      Biggest problem for me is finding other people enjoying my new hobby, at the same stage of learning, during the time period that I am into it.

      I’ve been learning acrylic painting the last few weeks. I’d love to find a forum to discuss this while I’m still into it.

      • @Badass_panda
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        12 years ago

        See now I just got tempted to go get acrylic paints and join you. Get thee behind me, satan

        • @3rdBlueWizard
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          22 years ago

          It’s great! What I like about it most is that you can go a long way just by learning about paints, brushes, techniques. It’s not like drawing where all your (well, my) initial attempts suck.

          My biggest recommendation: get small canvases. It takes less time to paint and you can finish and get something good without too much time investment. Much more motivating than a big canvas where I get bored before finishing.

          Also, check out joony art on youtube. Every video is 10 minutes. Easy paintings that look good. Great for ADHD painters.

          Sorry, just realized I typed a lot to convince you to do something which might mean you’ll stop your current hobby!

          • @Badass_panda
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            12 years ago

            I’ll check it out when I get home from the trip I’m on. I’ll let you know how it goes!

    • jdb
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      22 years ago

      Reminds me of this from one of my favorite short video series years ago. Also, I’m the same!

  • @MrsDoyle
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    132 years ago

    Hi! I’m 70, so retired and have many hobbies and interests. At the moment it’s beekeeping and coastal rowing that take up most of my time. I took up rowing after arthritis put paid to dinghy sailing, and it’s fantastic. I gave up racing this year but I sort of miss it. I keep bees with a community group, we have 15 hives on two sites. I’m also into photography, hill-walking, knitting, travel, gardening, all the old-lady stuff. And I enjoy tinkering with tech, I run a club website and a blog for a friend. What else? Baking, jam-making, DIY… I’m sure there’s something I’ve missed. Oh, I made a pond and some frogs moved in, so I guess frog-watching? Is that a thing?

    I always had penpals when I was a kid. My mother had one when she was a girl too, and finally got to meet her when they were in their 60s.

  • @[email protected]
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    102 years ago

    I’m into

    • Ham radio

    • Powerlifting

    • Books

    My life is pretty chill at the moment. Got laid off last month and am still on the job hunt.

  • manitcor
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    92 years ago

    tech, movies, music and social media.

    im one of those “works too many hours” types. If im not in front of a screen I’m hanging out with my family or the feral cats we are rehabbing.

    • @ritswd
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      Hey, we could get along!

      Software engineer here with a lot of focus on work, but I drop it all in an instant if my little family needs anything from me. I was a ton into movies, but I’m more into TV shows these days, for the little time that I have for them. Also video games a bit, which I wasn’t at all into until recently. I play music for fun between meetings (piano, guitar, ukulele, mandolin) to keep my sanity. And social media… well, not a ton, but I’m here aren’t I? 😉

      About music, do you play at all, or just enjoy listening?

  • Che Banana
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    72 years ago

    Chef (35 years in the industry) moved family out of the US in 2019, opened a restaurant 4 months before covid, run it with my wife…still here & have a great vibe.

    Hike (not too much now, gimpy tendon & old) Bike (shifted down feom road to mountain/trail) Beach (every day in the summer) Travel (so far we have been sticking with exploring more of our adopted country) Eating

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    I’m 33M, single dad, and recently widowed. My son takes up a majority of my time and I love just about every moment with him. In my spare time I’m learning guitar and enjoy playing video games with friends. My job is in software engineering and I enjoy tinkering with computers.

  • hazel 🤷🏻‍♀️🏳️‍🌈
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    52 years ago

    I’m a 28 yo trans woman and switched careers from arts admin to data science in healthcare. I’m learning UE5 in the hopes of realizing a game idea (city-builder/resource manager on a floating Rubik’s cube).

    Special interests change regularly and include: electrical engineering, software development, anything space / cosmology / physics, sewing, piano, etc… It’s a problem.

    I adopted to cats Shadow Lady and Stinky Jane last year and they are everything to me.

    Anti-hobbies include eating, partying, public speaking, and dancing.

  • @DolphLundgren
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    52 years ago

    I made a Lemmy? Called lempals. Can I make you a mod?

  • @DovahFiST
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    52 years ago

    This seems fun! Here’s me:

    I’m 27, I’m a giant woodworking nerd who also loves video games and hobby electrical engineering. I was lucky enough to turn my passion into a career, where I have a unique job - I program and operate our rather old large format 5’*10’ CNC router, and also do all the hand-cut joinery for the pieces that get ordered that require it. I can talk about CNC routing and woodworking in general for ages. I also love the concept of creating my own electronic and have dabbled a bit with raspberry Pi’s, arduinos, ESP32’s and various sensor gizmos and gadgets. I’d love to use my CNC and hobby electrical knowledge to create my own “cyberdeck” one of these days, and have a large horde of parts for a custom arcade cabinet I’ve been planning to build. Don’t wanna write too much so I’ll stop here - if you’ve got similar interests I think it could be fun to chat!

  • @MiddleWeigh
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    I really like your idea.

    OK so I am 33M, i was addicted to drugs for my whole adult life basically up until over a year ago. I am a spiritual person, for lack of a better term. I have almost too much empathy for my own good. I love music. I play guitar and drums, write and record, for myself as therapy/meditation. I love writing poetry and im just starting to write my own story in a sort of stream of conscious style. I love all types of art, anything that captures the human spirit. I have a ton of wild stories of my escapades. I like lifting and being outside. I never went to college. I am a tradesman. I like to think im a good listener, who knows. I love talking to people, especially one on one. I like to think im honest, too much so. I can be quite entertaining, like a clown or jester. I am content with my life…for now. I’m kind of super into anime lately(3yrs). I’d also like to think I give somewhat serviceable advice, cause i Iived through a shit load of my own mistakes, and I am better for it. I practice reiki, and I believe the oneness permeating all things is malleable to the human consciousness… to an extent. I’m a fkn weirdo. Like a cat, I am entertained by very very small and seemingly meaningless and obvious things. I have an appreciation for life and its experience. I love thinking, learning and pushing the limits of my nervous system❤️

  • @LaunchesKayaks
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    I really enjoy video games, crafts, dnd, reading, and taking care of my critters. I have one dog, 2 cats, and 10 ducks. I will be getting a puppy next weekend. My dog is a beagle, my cats are just regular tabbys, and the breeds of ducks I have are: 4 French white muscovies, 1 jumbo Pekin, one regular Pekin that’s crippled, 2 cayugas, a golden layer, and a khaki campbell. The puppy I am getting is a goldendoodle.

    I work in IT as a tier one help desk tech as a means to feed and shelter myself and my critters.

  • @DolphLundgren
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    32 years ago

    Ooh I like this idea a lot. But I feel like it will need/spark a community on its on. Maybe “Lempals”?

    • @DolphLundgren
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      It could function like r4r but obv platonic in general I guess? Might be fun to be a mod on that. I’m not sure how to make a Lemmy

  • xedrak
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    I love video games, board games, music, and traveling. I used to love programming too, but working as a software dev for as long as I have has kind of killed that passion 😅

    Life is great! I feel very fortunate to not have a lot of stressors in my life. I hope that’s more common than it seems these days!

    • Skybreaker
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      Yeah, that’s why I never encourage people to work in something they love. It will kill your passion for it. Instead, do something you can put up with and find something you like about it. What video games and music do you like?

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        Oh I completely agree. Funny enough, I never intended to do it as a career. I always wanted to be a pilot. But unfortunately the FAA considers me “medically unfit”, so I had to go with my backup plan.

        For video games I’m all over the place lol. I’m a huge fan of 2D platformers, so Spelunky 2 and Hollow Knight are pretty high up on my list. I’ve played a ton of OSRS over the years, but I’ve been taking a hiatus for the last few years. I imagine I’ll start playing again eventually! Besides that, some of my other favorites are Factorio, Terraria, Dark Souls/Elden Ring, and Divinity Original Sin 2. There’s just too many to even name haha.

        For music I’m a metal fan, specifically progressive metal. But I really enjoy electronic, rap, and classical as well.

        How about you?

        • Skybreaker
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          That’s awesome! Some pretty great games you’ve listed. I also love Dark Souls/Elden Ring and Hollow Knight as well! Those are intense games, but getting the platinum in them is fun. I also love God of War, Horizon Zero Dawn, Mario, and Shadow of Mordor/War. But my favorite game of all time is Zelda and I’ve been playing the new one basically non stop.

          I assume you’re excited for Silksong? I just hope it gets released sometime in the next 10 years.

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          Wow, similar thing for me, I have a ‘bicuspid aortic valve’ which means the aortic valve in my heart is a bit funky and doesn’t push blood through as it should. And that makes the FAA also deem me medically unfit. I think there is a process to get a medical exemption, but with the cost of getting a license so high already, I just decided to stick with MSFS. I get to ‘fly’ a 737 like I wanted as a kid, learn all about it, but I’m not shelling out thousands and years of my life (okay, maybe I am shelling out some money but I like pretty airports!)

          • xedrak
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            That’s a bummer! For me it’s Narcolepsy, and because the only medication that works for me also disqualifies me, exemption isn’t an option for me.

            MSFS really is awesome! The level of detail with the planes blew my mind. Come to think of it, I haven’t tried playing it again since I upgraded my PC. I should give it a shot!

            What kind of setup do you have for MSFS?

  • Skybreaker
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    I have no problem telling people I’m into video games (playstation and nintendo - mostly zelda right now), movies, and reading (lotr, stormlight). For some reason it feels like people shy away from saying they’re into those things. Everyone knows you watch TV at night. No need to be coy about it. I’m also into soccer (playing and watching top 5 leagues) and music (playing guitar and piano).

    • @Deccarrin
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      Zelda is awesome.

      Lotr and brando are awesome.

      Arsenal are awesome.

      Guitars are awesome.

      Sounds good to me.

      • Skybreaker
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        I always love meeting other Sanderson fans. I feel like it’s a really tight knit community. I’m looking forward to the discussions that we will be able to have on Lemmy someday when more people join. Journey Before Destination!

        Have you played the new Zelda game?

        And your a fellow masochist (i.e. Arsenal fan)? How long have you supported them? Who’s your favorite player?

        • @Deccarrin
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          The two communities on reddit were so lovely too. Absolutely hoping they come over here. I can never decide on which books I enjoy most but having listened to mistborn again while introducing my wife to the stories I think it has to be them. The world building is so special.

          Yeah haven’t stopped since it came out haha, the engine building physics stuff is so interesting. There’s also a tonne to explore and stuff. I’ve still not finished the main quest line. Honestly it makes me feel like a kid discovering gaming again.

          Odegaard for sure. I’ve always supported them, although that was easy as I started enjoying football when they were the invincibles. I was a glory hunter but for sure stuck by them. There’s a good community on lemmy already over at gunners (lemmy.world) I think!! Who’s your favourite?

          • Skybreaker
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            I’m incredibly jealous. You got to see Arsenal in their prime. I didn’t really start following them until 2008 or 2009. I was too young to pay attention to foreign leagues before that. But I am hoping they are on their way to a serious resurgence. This season was great (Odegaard was phenomenal, and Saka is just amazing on the ball), so I’m hoping the title will be within reach within the next year or couple of years. Saka is my favorite current player, though I’ll always remember Wilshere and Ramsey in their prime (when they weren’t injured). They were so fun to watch.