• Pennomi
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    1471 year ago

    The idea of “soulmates” or “the one and only” is inherently dangerous because it threatens the honesty of a relationship at a fundamental level. And what’s more important to a relationship than honesty?

    • @[email protected]
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      661 year ago

      Right? Any relationship takes work to maintain, so expecting things to just magically work without putting in any effort is a recipe for disappointment.

      Also, the whole opposites attract thing is kinda bullshit when you look at 40+ year marriages.

      • @[email protected]
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        301 year ago

        Opposites attract works for sex though. 2 aggressive tops or 2 meek bottoms aren’t gonna have nearly as much fun as one of each.

        • Dharma Curious
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          251 year ago

          Thanks to the local porn store, I have had many an eventful evening with another meek bottom.

          … also my experience, give a meek bottom some kind of hardware and an opportunity, and they turn into nearly violent tops. Lmao

        • @captainlezbian
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          91 year ago

          I think opposites and sames are bad frames to think of sex and relationships. Aggro top and meek bottom are either a recipe for a wonderful night or a terrible one depending on communication and tastes. Likewise I’ve had good sex with fellow bottoms even though it might’ve been better had she been a top. Additionally a generous vers will find no better company than another generous vers. What works best is one’s complement.

    • Yewb
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      331 year ago

      Your not wrong but there is always someone out there that just gets you, difficult to find but they exist.

      • Pennomi
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        391 year ago

        Oh absolutely. My wife is literally the closest thing there could be to a soulmate. That being said, we both know that there are billions of other people in the world. There’s always an option to find someone else, so we always treat each other right.

    • @mriormro
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      251 year ago

      This is a meme about milquetoast christian dudes…

      There’s no mention of soulmates anywhere. Why is this relevant?

    • idunnololz
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      71 year ago

      Communication is critical but it’s kind of related to honesty. You can definitely imagine a relationship where there is honesty but not enough communication or there is honesty but there is miscommunication without the issue ever being addressed.

    • @Wilibus
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      01 year ago

      Her skills in toaster operation seem pretty important given the context.

  • @Saneless
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    771 year ago

    It’s also amazing that they’re “perfectly compatible” with the first teenage boy their parents let her talk to for more than 4 minutes alone

  • @gmtom
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    571 year ago

    And then 2 months later, she says the same thing about her new boyfriend Tristan, who is the exact same person.

  • @[email protected]
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    401 year ago

    They could have picked a less reliable car for the comparison… or one that’s more easily stolen lmao

    • @sheogorath
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      51 year ago

      Yea, Accord is good. Altima is much better to be used as a metaphor.

  • @CheeseToastie
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    221 year ago

    Some of us wish to be a Connor, these days I feel like the equivalent of a ford pinto

  • lorez
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    191 year ago

    Sometimes taking off your bra and sliding your underwear to a side is all the foreplay you need. So I applaud Connor.

  • @[email protected]
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    1 year ago

    Why you gotta pick on Connor and his girl? Let people love each other don’t be a dick

  • @G6MOD
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    1 year ago

    Who is Connor? I’m confused.

    • @RedditWanderer
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      -51 year ago

      I think he’d meant to be a chad? Getting incel vibes from this meme