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Cake day: 2023年6月10日

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  • We were the same age, started just by us hanging out at home all the time.

    Lasted a little over a year until I got booted from high school and moved back east with my father.

    No idea if my mom/her dad knew or suspected. They were both pretty solid drunks.

    My friends knew, I was a scumbag skeevy stoner, so if course I told anyone that would listen.

    I eventually caught feels. Pretty sure she didn’t. For a long time I was super into her friend who, I’m pretty sure, thought I was a loser. I mean, she was not wrong.

    Mostly I think the whole deal was two kids exploring their own sexualities with the most convenient person in proximity.

    I feel it is also important to add that the whole thing was not attractive in any way. Like when I read shit like this I always imagine hot people doing hot shit. Defo not the case, lol.









  • This is my stance on the word.

    We use it regularly in engineering for this exact definition. Mentally disabled people typically operate in the best version of themselves nearly all the time (minus bad days, we all have em)

    But people who have the potential to operate at their full capacity but choose not to are the very definition of the word.

    I will definitely think it while standing in line behind someone for 15 minutes at a coffee shop who don’t decide to even look at the menu until the cashier gets to them.

    But I still don’t say it, as intention and perception are competely unrelated.

    I’d also add “you dumb fucker” hits about the same, without the fallout of “the R word”

    I guess that’s the part about people and taboo words I don’t understand. A little fun flex in vocabulary can transmit the same sentiment without impacting others.

    Tactical strike, not full fallout.




  • Fatty here.

    Southwest Airlines in the United States let’s you buy an extra seat, and then when you check in at the airport, they will refund the cost of the extra seat provided you are a “person of size.”

    Being that the center arm rests go up, this makes it significantly more tolerable for both me, and the regular sized person who sits in the row with me.

    A lot of the other airlines used to do this as well. Now only Southwest does… For now…