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Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzOPto Ask Lemmy•Should 21-23-year-olds be allowed to date older people?18·12 hours agoMe thinking older men should not date young women who are in their early to mid 20s is “incel”?
Sounds like you are trying to justify pedophila and predatory abusive behavior.
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzOPto Ask Lemmy•Should 21-23-year-olds be allowed to date older people?18·12 hours agoIf you are 26+, it’s fine to date who you want. I’m talking about women who are 21, 22, 23 and 24 years old. Should they be allowed to date much older men who are in their 40s or 50s?
Do you think these older men deserve to die?
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzOPto Ask Lemmy•Should 21-23-year-olds be allowed to date older people?15·12 hours agoIf you are 26+, it’s fine to date who you want. I’m talking about women who are 21, 22, 23 and 24 years old. Should they be allowed to date much older men who are in their 40s or 50s?
Do you think these older men deserve to die?
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzOPto Ask Lemmy•Should 21-23-year-olds be allowed to date older people?114·14 hours agoStatistically, when one person is much older, it results in a toxic one-sided relationship
If this chance is high then why should it be allowed?
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzOPto Ask Men•Do some women with sexual experience date a virgin?English11·1 day agoBeing in the mid 20s and not having banged someone can also be a sign of poor attitudes towards the opposite sex. Like incels and femcels.
What if someone was homeschooled for all of their childhood, and they didn’t have the opportunity to date or have sex? What if a kid grew up in a super religious household, and their parents shamed them relentlessly for even thinking about having sex?
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzBanned from communityOPto Showerthoughts•Being a 22-year-old virgin or being 22 and never having been in a relationship is something to be shameful about.218·2 days agoLike I said, most people love their virginity before that age. If you are a 25-year-old man who’s a virgin, no woman who’s 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30 or 31 years old will want to date you because they don’t want to date a virgin, and that goes for most adult men and women who have sexual experience.
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzBanned from communityOPto Showerthoughts•Being a 22-year-old virgin or being 22 and never having been in a relationship is something to be shameful about.137·2 days agoIt’s okay to be virgin at 25 dude
No, it isn’t. Like I said, most people love their virginity before that age. If you are a 25-year-old man who’s a virgin, no woman who’s 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30 or 31 years old will want to date you because they don’t want to date a virgin, and that goes for most adult men and women who have sexual experience.
I asked my friend and she honestly guessed my character was 15 😭
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzBanned from communityOPto Showerthoughts•I'm tired of teen superheroes71·3 days agoBack in the 90’s anime had men and women doing awesome shit. There was sex and violence. There were characters I could relate to.
Can you suggest some 90s anime with sex and violence?
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzBanned from communityOPto Showerthoughts•The age of adulthood should be 21 and the age of consent should be 21 across the world11·3 days agoSo you think the age of consent should be 21? And 21-23 year olds should be able to cosent to sex and relationships with much older partners?
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzBanned from communityOPto Showerthoughts•TV/MA 'High School' teen drama shows should be set in college and centered around young adults or adults.13·3 days agoI didn’t say kids didn’t do these things. I said Hollywood shouldn’t romanticise it or glorify it.
Do you think it’s okay for minors to do drugs, drink and have sex with adults? Do you think? Parents are “villains” for justifiably saying “your a minor this isn’t ok”?
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzBanned from communityOPto Showerthoughts•TV/MA 'High School' teen drama shows should be set in college and centered around young adults or adults.21·3 days agoIf you didn’t do these things in high school, that’s a skill issue
I didn’t say kids didn’t do these things. I said Hollywood shouldn’t romanticise it or glorify it.
Do you think it’s okay for minors to do drugs, drink and have sex with adults? Do you think? Parents are “villains” for justifribaly saying “your a minor this isn’t ok”?
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzBanned from communityOPto Showerthoughts•TV/MA 'High School' teen drama shows should be set in college and centered around young adults or adults.11·3 days ago“young adults or adults” seems to imply young adults are not adults, which they are
I know I’m saying younger adults or maybe slightly older adults, like the youngest being 21 and the oldest being 25 or something. If you want the characters to be in close proximity with each other and still have this school dynamic, then college is perfect; there are people in their late 20s or early 30s getting their PhDs in these teen dramas. The writers never actually show the awkwardness of high school; they only want to show them talking, acting and doing adult things but never really show the consequences or have teens realise maybe they are too young for this. If you want a show where the characters look, act, and do things 21-year-olds do with little to no consequences and no adults even asking the slightest of questions, then just make them 21 and in college.
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzBanned from communityOPto Showerthoughts•TV/MA 'High School' teen drama shows should be set in college and centered around young adults or adults.64·3 days agoKids in my school were absolutely clubbing drinking, hooking up, doing drugs, getting pregnant etc. at 15 or 16.
I never said that they didn’t, but TV will glamorize it and make it look “cool” and “edgy” and romanticize it when it’s really not. There are teens who dated their high school teachers and got married, but just because this happens doesn’t mean we should romanticize this relationship on the screen.
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzBanned from communityOPto Showerthoughts•"fridging" is honestly the only good motivation to become a superhero or good person210·4 days agoHow about just be decent for the fuck of it? Why should we need reasons to be good people?
There is a difference between being a good person and going out of your way to get revenge for someone.
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzBanned from communityOPto Showerthoughts•"fridging" is honestly the only good motivation to become a superhero or good person115·4 days agoMy point is that only a romantic partner can truly be the sole motivator to become a hero or to seek revenge. I don’t necessarily disagree that fridging is misogynistic, but honestly, a platonic loved one dying is not a strong enough reason to want revenge or to become a hero.
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzBanned from communityOPto Showerthoughts•"fridging" is honestly the only good motivation to become a superhero or good person118·4 days agoSo if you lived in a superhero universe and you got powers and your best friend was killed, you would honestly use your powers to find the killer and be a hero to avenge them? Seriously?
Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzBanned from communityOPto Showerthoughts•"fridging" is honestly the only good motivation to become a superhero or good person122·4 days agoYou don’t expect people to be motivated by loss of any loved one other than a romantic partner? Really? No other kind of love is strong enough for you?
Honestly, no, I’m not saying friends or family members aren’t important, but they aren’t important enough to decide to get revenge, avenge or put on a costume to fight crime for. Or to just change your life around and be a good person
In my opinion only romantic love should do that.
My problem with Spider-Man is that Uncle Ben is the central motivation for Peter, and in my opinion, it’s dumb. I honestly don’t think Peter should have even gone to confront the killer. An uncle or any family member isn’t worth that.
Slightly younger