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Cake day: 2026年2月8日

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  • Don’t try to reason with an unreasonable person, the hoarder. Call your own shots and do what you need to do. If you factor in a bunch of input from the illogical problem source, where do you think you’ll end up?

    Either subject yourself to it and accept the work or don’t, but trying to work with them will derail your efforts.

    No, it’s not your direct problem, but given that you say you cannot move for whatever reason, you seem to yield to it being your indirect problem.

    Your motivation is cleanliness, space, and new beginnings. Everything that comes with those. If that’s not enough for any of you, cozy up with complacency until you can move out.



















  • I keep this in mind after selling my home and going back to renting, it was obvious which landlords needed the money. I have no issue telling somebody I’ll move in a month if rent would be changing or any other fuckery.

    I may be renting currently, but I am financially stable and have always made above median family income for my areas. I have owned homes, I know what it entails and the finances look like, and I have enough for a down payment on a home as needed, I am evaluating life on more temporary terms currently.