• @johannesvanderwhales
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    9424 days ago

    I don’t really have any interest in online competitive gaming, but messaging an opponent to tell them they suck after you beat them badly doesn’t really seem to follow the precepts of sportsmanship.

          • @johannesvanderwhales
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            2724 days ago

            It’s almost like the fact that the people who participate in online competitive gaming being complete shitstains (and it being completely normalized) is a big reason why I have no interest in online competitive gaming.

            • @[email protected]
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              -324 days ago

              Okay, I really don’t see how it’s that bad tbh. I’ve never messaged anyone like that or been toxic, but it’s so mild…

              I also don’t think it’s been “normalized”, it’s just really not a big deal. I don’t know why anyone would be that bothered by it and think they’re a complete shitstain.

              • The Octonaut
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                1724 days ago

                It’s absolutely normalised. Imagine saying this in any other circumstance playing a game with a stranger.

                That this is mild for gaming doesn’t mean it isn’t toxic as fuck.

                • Instigate
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                  924 days ago

                  Yeah, it’s hard to imagine two strangers sitting at a chessboard at the park when one goes “LOL checkmate d00d u suck bro!!”. People are far more willing to be toxic arseholes when they don’t have to look the other person in the eye. Anonymity allows for the worst behaviour a person can engage in - just look at platforms with forced anonymity like 4chan. The more anonymous you are, the more of a dick you’re willing to be.

          • @Shadowedcross
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            724 days ago

            Obviously people have said and do say much worse things, but at least most of the time it’s in-game, it’s pretty shitty to DM someone instead.