• @thedirtyknapkin
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    5 months ago

    i still remembe needing to wait literal hours at the gate every damn time. we were never even close to late. they were always panicking. i don’t understand it…

    it’s not just parents either. some people are just like that when they travel. I’ve tried going places with friends that made it absolutely miserable as an adult because they were fucking panicking the whole time until we sat on the plane. i swear some people have never dealt with a deadline before or something. don’t know how to deal with a clock ticking down i guess.

    • @[email protected]
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      145 months ago

      it’s not just parents either. some people are just like that when they travel.

      Dude I flew out somewhere for a work training and it was 11x easier than my parents ever made it out to be. Just read the signs, follow the directions and get there about 1-2 hours before boarding. The biggest hassle was finding coffee in the Orlando airport (I ended up finding it tucked in the back corner of a bar)

      The whole experience was more enjoyable than I ever remember flying being and it just comes down to going with the flow and being ready to roll with the punches

      • @[email protected]
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        115 months ago

        You flew by yourself, without taking care of a child, and you’re surprised it’s easier? Everything is easier without a kid. Your parents flew all over the place before you arrived. Planes weren’t invented when you were born.

        • @[email protected]
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          45 months ago

          Nah they would get freaked out by the smallest inconvenience and just getting to the gate was an odyssey for them somehow. With my own kids I’ve got plenty of things I look back on and go “oh yeah I understand why my parents did that now” but also plenty of things where its 100% “how the heck was this such a challenge for my parents to handle?”

    • @[email protected]
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      85 months ago

      It’s the complete loss of control which panics me. It’s quite understandable that people also get anxious over maybe forgetting to remove stuff (from their bags which the security wouldn’t let through) or rechecking if they’ve everything. Because if not, you have to run around a lot and potentially miss your very expensive flight with likely no monetary compensation

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      55 months ago

      Well put. Also, it’s not like there’s 1 single sky zeppelin that you won’t see again for weeks. Admittedly, I’m a bad about deadlines and preparing. I traveled for work for years and missed several flights. Not fun, but as long as your actual schedule isn’t too tight, it’s usually no big deal. I talk to the airline, they put me on another flight later, I wait around a bit or go home and come back for the alternative flight.

      At one point I lived like 15 minutes from a smaller airport. I could literally get there 30 minutes before departure if I overslept or something and usually made it through the quick security and onto my flight…

      • @legion02
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        165 months ago

        My guy, you’re missing flights. That’s exactly what the panicked people are trying to avoid.

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          55 months ago

          I traveled the world for years and missed several flights

          1. just off of that line I would assume the dude’s made way more flights than missed

          2. he went on to say it’s not the end of the world if you do miss a flight. As it’s not. Since there will be more flights soon; so there’s no need to panic

          • @legion02
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            95 months ago

            Most people wouldn’t agree with 2 imo. The hassle of rescheduling a flight dwarfs the hassle of showing up a little early by a lot.

          • @[email protected]
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            15 months ago

            Sorry, to be clear these were all domestic flights. I could absolutely see international being a bigger deal if you missed them, and would prioritize accordingly…

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          25 months ago

          Meh. I get that, but my point is it’s by no means the end of the world, only a minor inconvenience.