Develop into your own beautiful human, first. A lot of dudes are mid at best; myself included

  • @kemsat
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    364 months ago

    Same for men. I definitely would’ve ended up in a better place if I hadn’t wasted my time chasing women & their attention & approval when I was in my 20s.

    • @[email protected]
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      -194 months ago

      Well, women don’t say random shit at you on the streets, for example. I’m a man so I don’t have the fortune, but I’m sure there’s a lot more they have to deal with.

          • @kemsat
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            74 months ago

            Ah. Yeah, I didnt mean to diminish anything. Kind of annoying people are so combative, tho.

          • @[email protected]
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            54 months ago

            Are you sure men are not subjected to something similar? Granted, no random women came to me on the street, but I received all kinds of weird “advice” by distantly acquainted women as a young man, which in all honesty also felt like “pressuring me to conform to female desire”