• @Psychodelic
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    111 hours ago

    It’s worth realizing some people do not want to be cheered up. My understanding is the misery, for lack of a better word, is more comforting to many as it reminds them of when they were young (or they emulate what they saw around them as children)

    • @exanime
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      310 hours ago

      It’s worth realizing some people do not want to be cheered up.

      I get that 100% and, although I am sure I made the mistake before, I am trying hard to understand and respect these boundaries

      I am just saying I believe wearing such a pin to avoid people would have a noticeable cobra effect

      • @Psychodelic
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        210 hours ago

        Ahh I get u now. Yeah, that’s totally true