Summary

Following Donald Trump’s recent election victory, Google searches for “4B,” a South Korean feminist movement advocating a “no sex, no dating, no marriage, no children” stance, surged in the U.S.

The 4B movement, popular among young women on social media, promotes individual resistance against conservative politics and the erosion of reproductive rights.

The trend reflects a broader ideological divide between young men and women in the U.S., where women under 30 are significantly more liberal than men.

  • Ekybio
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    651 month ago

    Understandable.

    But sweaering of ALL men is neither healthy nor realistic and the 4B movement is not really helping the issue. Plua the movement is extremely transphobic and essentialist. Its just TERFs doing a thing again…

    A more practical solution: Dont date MAGA and leave them if need be. Take the children from them as well. They deserve scorn for voting in a dictator, just because they cant get laid. And they deserve to be reminded on how parhetic they are for all of it every single das until they change.

    • lettruthout
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      571 month ago

      Agreed. I also can understand the feelings behind this, but it seems to ignore that quite a number of women voted for Trump.

      • @QuarterSwede
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        151 month ago

        Bingo. My wife won’t vote for a woman president because she, not me, thinks that they’re too emotional. I know a decent amount of women in the workplace that feel the same way. I voted for Kamala because Trump is a paranoid narcissist that is a thief, liar, and can’t be trusted and she was a darn sight better to keep the boat moving predictably forward.

            • @PunnyName
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              241 month ago

              I hope you realize your wife is a moron and a fascist.

              • @QuarterSwede
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                01 month ago

                Never said she voted for Trump. In fact, we don’t tell each other who we vote for. So yeah, try again. She’s typically strongly independent and really hates the two party system. RCV FTW.

                • @PunnyName
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                  11 month ago

                  My wife won’t vote for a woman president because she, not me, thinks that they’re too emotional.

                  This is directly from the Right’s playbook. She’s a moronic fascist.

                  Talk to her, and teach her the error of her ways. If you continue to be an apologist for a fascist, you might as well give up and join their ranks.

                  • @QuarterSwede
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                    11 month ago

                    Whose to say I haven’t? Everyone just loves to assume things.

        • @[email protected]
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          391 month ago

          Women are too emotional to be president? Shit man, maga and their current figurehead are fueled by extremely volatile emotion, no matter how much they crow about facts vs feelings. Rage is an emotion, and it’s what’s driven the movement for years before it even had a name. Citing emotionality as a reason not to elect a woman is just an excuse—a very poor one, at that—and everyone knows it.

          • @QuarterSwede
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            181 month ago

            Hey, you’re preaching to the choir. Lol.

        • @Eatspancakes84
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          221 month ago

          That’s rich. How could one ever think in this election that Kamala was the emotional one. She made one joke about his crowd size and he went completely off the rails.

          • @QuarterSwede
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            31 month ago

            Got me. I think Trump is incredibly unstable.

        • RedSeries
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          1 month ago

          deleted by creator

          • @Voyajer
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            51 month ago

            Might want to re-read that comment.

          • @QuarterSwede
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            Reading comprehension. Jesus you people are stupid.

            No wonder why the Democrats continue to underperform.

    • @njm1314
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      201 month ago

      There’s nothing inherently unhealthy about being asexual.

        • @njm1314
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          -71 month ago

          From a physiological standpoint? Seems virtually the same to me. The other guy said it was unhealthy. Is there anything unhealthy about abstinence?

            • @njm1314
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              31 month ago

              Yes, no one is arguing that. The context was there’s no difference physiologically speaking. That was the premise.

                • @njm1314
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                  41 month ago

                  I have enough respect for those people to know they are smart enough to understand the distinction.

          • peopleproblems
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            41 month ago

            Asexuality doesn’t have the desire for sex.

            This is abstinence for those that would like to have sex but don’t feel safe.

          • Vivian (they/them)
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            They’re not necessarily the same, there’s two major differences between them physiologicaly:

            1. Asexual people date others unless they are also aromantic (well aromantic people also can date but it’s less common)
            2. Some asexual people can and do have sex
        • @Seltzer
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          271 month ago

          It’s called celibacy, and it’s voluntary in this context.

        • @PunnyName
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          211 month ago

          Incel = involuntary celibacy

          These women are volunteering to be celibate.

        • @njm1314
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          71 month ago

          Wow you don’t understand what incels are at all do you?

    • @[email protected]
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      71 month ago

      The problem is that some men will literally tell a woman anything they want to hear until they’re in bed. They will lie their ass off and avoid political discussion until after the proposal, then they’ll suggest maybe she could cook a little more