• @Unknown1234_5
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    1. Why does everyone have beef with lemmy.ml
    2. Why don’t you just block the instance

    Edit: thank you for real responses, got so used to be people getting pissed for no reason on social media that I was genuinely surprised to check Lemmy and see a bunch of genuine answers with no butthurt to be seen

    • OpenStars
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      15 days ago

      Lemmy has a very different community than Reddit - here, people are often outright kind.

      In part that’s a large reason for the beef with Lemmy.ml, e.g. recently a mod there removed comments for a user over a misunderstanding in a game, and in the process said that they (the MOD!) wanted to shoot them (the OP), doubling down and even tripping down to say “I hope you die soon”. (Described in more detail here.)

      It is ironic that one of the very first Lemmy instances, and also being the one whose admins are also the developers of the Lemmy sourcecode, is so much less like the rest of the people on Lemmy, and more like Reddit. But it is what it is.

    • Cowbee [he/they]
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      Lemmy.ml is admin’d and moderated mostly by Marxists, and the liberal side of Lemmy is hostile to that. That’s the principle contradiction, everything else stems from that core issue.

    • @PugJesus
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      Why does everyone have beef with lemmy.ml

      The admins and mods cultivate a community of genocide denial and authoritarian apologism, which many users on the instance then buy into.

      Why don’t you just block the instance

      Instance blocking only blocks communities, not users, who still show up whenever there’s a Chinese genocide to deny or a Russian atrocity to “WHATABOUT”, or a non-Western aligned dictator to “BOTHSIDES”.

      My current favorite is Taliban-simping.

      • @toynbee
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        When I accidentally blocked an instance, any comment from a user on that instance would be replaced by a message like “you have blocked this instance and so will not see this comment.” I don’t know if that’s a feature of my client, Connect, or of lemmy itself.

    • jkozaka
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      258 days ago

      The ml in lemmy ml means marxism-leninism, it’s maintained by the lemmy devs so it has lots of “normal” users too. Some people associate lemmy.ml with “tankie” viewpoints.

      • ArxCyberwolf
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        27 days ago

        The ml stands for Mali, which is the country the instance domain is registered to. The Marxist-Leninist connection is a happy coincidence for them.

      • tired_n_bored
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        168 days ago

        Lemmy devs are tankies, especially the main maintainer

      • @[email protected]
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        38 days ago

        The ml in lemmy ml means marxism-leninism

        It means Mali and was chosen because it was cheap/free

        • @[email protected]
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          168 days ago

          You’re both right!

          It is Mali’s domain, and Marxist-Leninists choose that domain to work out of because of the initialism.

          Kinda like why BIOT’s domain is so popular with the tech folks.

        • @cm0002OP
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          chosen because it was cheap

          Um nah, there are a LOT of cheap ass TLDs, hell even .com TLDs are only $10-20 a YEAR

          It might not actually mean marxism-leninism (then again, who the hell knows, we have .zip TLDs now ffs), but it sure does to the .ml admins

          • @[email protected]
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            Back 3y ago the users claimed it did mean marxist-leninist (or rather if we must be pedantic, that the TLD does mean Mali but they chose it because it meant marxist-leninist to them.) They stopped around the time of the exodus (read: they put on a mask to trap unsuspecting redditors) and they’ve ramped back up since everyone defederated hex and grad (my guess, those users created .ml alts specifically to proselytize to the unwilling like Evangelical roaches once their supply to feed their victim complex dried up.)

            History for posterity’s sake.

    • @[email protected]
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      208 days ago

      I choose not to block the instance because there is a very small group on there that have non-political discussions that I enjoy, same with hexbear.

      I also don’t like creating an echo chamber where all I hear is what I want to hear. Hearing from the other side, as disgusting as their viewpoints can be, at least let’s me know how they think.

      • Scrubbles
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        128 days ago

        I don’t agree with their tankie views, but it does force me to see other views. However I usually just eyeroll and move on.

        If I see racism or hate though that’s an immediate block.

      • @[email protected]
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        68 days ago

        I like this view, because I have zero idea what I just walked in on. This account is just 16 days old and I’m just here to chat non-politics and doomscroll. And by 16 days old I mean like 4 because their acceptance email got sent to spam and I didn’t notice it until then.

        Tbh, I had no idea there were even factions or drama among the instances.

        • @cm0002OP
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          You should make an account on another instance, if you don’t like the heavy hand of defederation of .world, lemmy.sdf.org is a good one and sh.itjust.works is another

          There’s also this community if you want to see for yourself the kind of behavior the admins and mods of .ml support, encourage and even participate in [email protected]

          • @[email protected]
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            08 days ago

            Honestly, that’s what I’m currently doing. I’ve always chuckled at the cleverness of the name sh.itjust.works. I started on .world, but I forgot to migrate my 2fa because I switched from Google Authenticator to an open source one on a new phone and didn’t take my lemmy token for some damn reason.

            I’m only switching because I’m a neutral entity online when it comes to politics and identity. I use the internet to escape that, not dive into it. I don’t mind seeing it, I just move along and let people be people. I’d rather not be potentially tied to an image or faction by association; its nothing against .ml or anything.

            • AwkwardLookMonkeyPuppet
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              38 days ago

              Lemmy.ml admins will delete anything that doesn’t support China or Russia, and they’ll also delete anything that speaks positively of Western countries or concepts. Then they’ll purge the logs so that there’s no evidence that they’re censoring basically everything.

        • AwkwardLookMonkeyPuppet
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          I started on .ml, and left after a couple months when I realized I was the only person on the instance who wasn’t a tanky fully committed to arguing with every post I see. They seem to have toned down a bit after getting defederated a couple times, but there are a lot of extremists on that instance, and they’re very loud. I felt like I was in a Chinese political re-education camp half the time.

      • Possibly linux
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        28 days ago

        The mods of that community are communists. They seem to mod in good faith but keep that in mind.

    • @KazuyaDarklight
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      148 days ago
      1. Lots of toxicity and bad takes.
      2. It isn’t literally the entire instance.
      • @cm0002OP
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        28 days ago

        It isn’t literally the entire instance.

        Maybe not, but when the admins and mods are part of the problem, it becomes pervasive.

      • Possibly linux
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        -48 days ago

        In my experience it is pretty much the entire instance. All the sane people moved to other places.

    • balderdash
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      In my experience, the mods on lemmy.ml are particularly biased. Like it’s okay to joke about American school shootings but not about abortions biased. But after a while I just stopped posting there. (I barely post to lemmy at all now, but that’s another story.)

      • Possibly linux
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        38 days ago

        I’m pretty sure making jokes about shootings is worse that jokes about abortions.

        Honestly they are both inappropriate

        • balderdash
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          Reasonable people can disagree about the rules, the point is the mods are inconsistent.

          (But seriously, do you really want to say one is worse than the other?)

    • @[email protected]
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      -28 days ago

      Your comment has been removed for including carnist hate words. We don’t use words that glorify murder like the “b” word.

          • @[email protected]
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            78 days ago

            Nah, one of my kids are vegetarian and I cook to support them. I have no issues with vegans. I see how it came across that way though.

            I suspect you must have missed the .ml vegan community drama a couple months ago. Take every bad stereotype about vegans and ramp it to 11. Everything was in bad faith. It bled into a couple different communities.

          • @[email protected]
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            Tbf, guess what the comms I got banned from are, and guess why? Vegan subs, “carnist propaganda.”

            I’m just saying, don’t make a post bemoaning “why do people hate vegans” and then ban the guy saying “because they often behave like evangelical christians.” I got kicked out of church for much the same reason, ironically.