Personally, I find it endlessly frustrating and even terrifying to be in the passenger seat with a driver who jumps in the car and immediately goes… Then worries about Seatbelts/Radio/AC/Mirrors/Plugging in Phone/etc etc while driving.

  • @Sterile_Technique
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    442 months ago

    When we’re first in line at a red light, and the driver starts doing shit like check their phone.

    Wife does this and it drives me nuts - unless it just turned red, you fucking stare at that light so you can GTFO the second it turns green.

    …then she gets annoyed when I say “light’s green” when it turns while she’s distracted. -_-

    • @thisisdee
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      232 months ago

      My husband got a ticket/points on his license doing that and that stopped him.

    • Toes♀
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      122 months ago

      No tolerance for that. Yank the phone from their hand and scold them like a child. That’s ridiculous.

    • @[email protected]
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      92 months ago

      Theres plenty of people who complain about drivers who get ticketed for using a mobile while at lights or stopped in traffic (think of the comments on a particular uk cycle cammer who films drivers using their mobiles then reports them) but it plays heavily with situational awareness & drivers ability to “check back in” to the activity of driving.

      • @Paddzr
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        72 months ago

        I’m all pro not touching a phone while driving, hell, I won’t even plug my phone to charge if driving.

        There’s no excuse.

        • Cousin Mose
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          42 months ago

          What I don’t understand is people having CarPlay/Android Auto and still doing this. I have CarPlay but honestly my Driving Focus declines notifications not from my wife; the rest of world can fuck off.

          • @[email protected]
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            32 months ago

            What makes those safer to use than the phone itself? Is it because they are considered part of the car so you are “allowed” to use them?

            • Cousin Mose
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              For me personally, I just tap the microphone and use voice assistant when I need to navigate somewhere or shoot off a text before I forget. Mine has the touchscreen that I don’t really use while driving. I’m also not a fan of taking calls in the car.

              The point is that it’s very unnecessary to touch your phone at all — I don’t even take mine out of my pocket. So when people have all this tech and continue using their phone (physically) I’m like “wtf?”

              Edit: I am however a fan of sharing my ETA via Apple Maps

    • @frostysauce
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      Being first at a red light is a big responsibility. That shit is not to be taken lightly.