• @hedgehogging_the_bed
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    2521 hours ago

    Conventionally attractive girls have their scholarly struggles ignored because it is assumed they are pretty enough to get along. They are generally treated well enough that they don’t become a behavioral problem. They are out there, suffering their poor reading and math skills in silence because there’s no push to identify them.

    • @randomdeadguy
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      421 hours ago

      I have also seen this. It can be easier to control one’s appearance than to control unidentified problems. There’s a huge market for fashion & cosmetics, perhaps bigger than the education industry. All people have value regardless of appearance or ability, of course.

    • @ClinicallydepressedpoochieOP
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      221 hours ago

      This was what I was wondering about. I never meant to suggest they didn’t exist. Just they must be out there suffering in silence.

      • @hedgehogging_the_bed
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        419 hours ago

        No, there is a push to ignore learning problems entirely unless they are bad enough to qualify for a diagnoses that merits additional funding. If you don’t pass the threshold for a qualifying diagnosis, they would rather not provide services at all.