This includes some porn subreddits as well as subreddits like /r/Drugs. Apparently due to being “unmoderated”, but some were not. What are your thoughts?

Edit: apparently also subreddits like /r/transgender_surgeries are banned too. Definitely feels politically motivated. Edit 2: seems like at least some (?) bans are being undone, like the above mentioned ones.

  • @AdamEatsAss
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    I think the main barrier to entry for Lemmy is having to pick an instance. For a lot of people that is confusing and they’ve never had to do it before. There are definitely people who would give up because they don’t understand what to do.

    • @[email protected]
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      As someone on lemmy who had never had to pick an instance before, it’s not that hard. The instances have descriptions similar to subreddits. You just pick one that sounds friendly. The problem is lack of content diversity. I’m still on reddit for niche topics, some of which are actually not that niche.

      • @Lost_My_Mind
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        It was confusing for me.

        Day 1 ‐ “What’s an instance? Which one is the main one?”

        “There is no main one.”

        “Which one is the biggest?”

        “Well, Lemmy.World is the biggest, but you’re not supposed to pick…”

        “I picked Lemmy.World.”

        • GRIMMnM
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          Hello I’m very new. Why not Lemmy.World?

        • @[email protected]
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          For sure, I’ve always said that for the most part it doesn’t really matter. Make an account on anyone of them and if you don’t align with that instance in the long run you can just hop to a different one.

              • @[email protected]
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                But you must understand that there are a potentially infinite number of instances and people have limited time to sign up for them.

                So they pick one, or two, or three, that seem okay.

                Then one turns out to be ran by a pedophile, so they stop using that one.

                Then one turns out to be a front for tankies, so they stop using that one.

                Then one turns out to [insert valid criticism of a popular instance], so they are back to account age 0 and searching for a new instance.

                In the old Reddit days you’d never lose your account (or have reason to abandon it) unless you were a nazi or pedophile. I had a twelve year old account banned because someone mass reported all of my (porn) posts, many were auto-actioned, and my appeals were all auto-denied.

                • @[email protected]
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                  Yeah I get it, my age old account is now abandoned because Reddit decided to fuck up. Guess what instance I hopped to to view Reddit? None, because Reddit is not decentralized.

          • @[email protected]
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            I did the hop for mastodon but that was mostly because I learned an instance can set a higher character limit and I absolutely hate fucking threads of tweets.

          • @[email protected]
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            Yeah but it will also influence your all feed, which is the main way of finding content when there’s no specific community for your interests.
            Or sometimes you run into the propaganda instances/users if you pick wrong.
            It becomes a hassle and we know normal people don’t want to even try.

        • SuzyQ
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          “I picked Lemmy.World.”

          For me, it was kbin.social - but kbin and lemmy didn’t play well together when I joined (and now it’s in its current state). Then I picked lemmy.world - and they went down one day due to the influx of users. Then I picked sh.itjust.works and I’ve been happy ever since. I’ll be staying here until the day I spin up my own instance.

        • @[email protected]
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          However, if they become regulars, I think they eventually find communities they’d rather identify with.

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      I’m honestly tired of seeing people make the excuse that switching to activitypub is “too hard” because they have to pick a server. It’s 2025, is half of the population experiencing an intelligence regress or something

      • edric
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        I think you’re underestimating how tech challenged the average user is. It’s likely that your circle and the lemmy community as a whole tends to be more tech savvy which kinda skews it a bit; but it’s a very, very tiny subset of people and not representative of the general population of internet users.

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        It’s crazy how little people understand about technology these days… But it’s also like this disinterest in even trying to learn.

      • @brucethemoose
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        Many people I personally know don’t even know how to use a browser, they do everything through apps served to them.

        • Net_Runner :~$
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          What in the heck happened lol we go from a generation of people building PCs, using DOS, hacking around in Windows and debloating operating systems, to people who can’t function unless their phone tells them what to do

          • @brucethemoose
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            building PCs, using DOS, hacking around in Windows

            Only a tiny slice of the population ever did this. Some still do.

            More did learn how to use Windows for their jobs, but that’s largely diminished now.

    • @rottingleaf
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      Yes, and it shouldn’t be a user-facing thing to pick an instance. Also identities shouldn’t be tied to instances.

      NOSTR is not populous enough, its content is mostly waves of repetition from Twitter, Reddit, even Fediverse, but they’ve done the relays thing right (you use an initial list of relays, then clients exchange lists of relays, simple and not the most efficient way, but still functional enough for Gnutella, BitTorrent etc). Except the concept of a pubkey being an identity is naive. But if your NOSTR identity is not as important as your Facebook profile or phone number, then maybe it’s fine to make it a pubkey. They have paid or limited relays too, which store only events from their members. I don’t remember how it’s done.

      It has the stigma of being done by cryptobros for cryptobros, but the technology itself involves no blockchain.

      I still don’t like NOSTR, they’ve made some things simpler than acceptable. I like how it shows that the relay model works and even scales.

        • @rottingleaf
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          NOSTR has NIP’s for moderated communities, I don’t remember how many clients support that.