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I fucked up. (Rule) open post

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I fucked up. (Rule) open post

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cross-posted from: https://sh.itjust.works/post/32321360

So, I don’t usually use Instagram but Today I needed it to contact someone becuase I didn’t have my phone with me and don’t remember his phone no. IG was only option so I used his(my friend) device to login then after calling. My friend said let’s check how much fucked up my reel feed is so I said “Go ahead, It just all Silly Cat and Programming meme unlike your Racist dark humours joke”(I swear to God I never follow or like any Femoboy content on Insta only silly cat and programming videos. Can’t say about other platform though ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )). He opened it first reel was that Femboy roommate game. And he scrolled 10 reels and 6 of them were Femboys related. He didn’t any word after just logged out it. And I said aah I need to go somewhere bye. I fucked up sure.

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WolfmanEightySix
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Own it. What’s so terrible about people having rights?
- hmmmOP
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  Naah, I mean they think I am gay or something and I will bang them ಠ_ಠ
  - [R3D4CT3D]
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    maintain eye contact while you bang them. that’ll show em!
  - @[email protected]
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    so you’re not gonna bang the femboys? great, more for the rest of us
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      Where femboys :3?¿ i wish they were real /j
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    You posted to blahaj.zone. This doesnt seem like the right instance for you if you arent ok with people thinking you might be gay, whether thats true or not.
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      Naah, I mean I am probably bi if I take the fact I actually love cute Femboys? I am not homophobe or something just I mean what my friend think.

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