• IninewCrow
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    45 hours ago

    I’m happily married for a very long time now and what I’ve noticed is that just being kind, attentive and listening is sometimes more than enough for some people to think that you are interested or flirting. I would never cheat but I’ve stepped into situations like this by accident more often than I care to admit.

    • @latenightnoir
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      24 hours ago

      Oh, yepyep, honest and open communication is vital in everything! And I agree that “to each their own,” we all have our own love languages and respond in our own unique ways to everything!

      I think your point is even reinforced by contemporary circumstances, as a whole damned lot of us would almost kill for a bit of kindness and soft attention…