• @[email protected]
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    215 hours ago

    Yep, makes sense to me based on my experience. People do not let down very nicely if you aren’t friends, not because they are mean, but because they most likely don’t care.

    • @latenightnoir
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      05 hours ago

      Yep! If not outright friends, then at least willing to be friendly, which counts just as much.

      And even if they go the full honesty route, the phrasing and attitude matters a lot - some present the truth without hard feelings, simply telling you what’s on their mind, others kind of use the truth to push you away.